How To Approach Women
by Joseph Matthews
The single most important skill every man should have is
knowing how to approach women, because if you don't know how
to do this, you're going to be at a serious disadvantage
when it comes to meeting your dream girl...
You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner
if you want to have success with your pickup. The following
are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be
successful in meeting women!
We've all had situations where we approached a girl with we
thought was a smooth line, but she immediately rejected us
before we could even open our mouths.
Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this
is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the
right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is
extremely hard to recover.
The most important thing to remember when approaching women
is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any
circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is known as "coming in under the radar."
It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys
approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her natural
inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright
REJECTING any man who seems interested in her.
Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly
walking up to you begging for change, you'd get pretty sick
of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick
them up are no better than that - an annoyance.
But despite all this, the girl WILL be receptive to you if
you know how to approach her in the RIGHT WAY.
So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman...
First - YOU MUST ACT FAST.
If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're
never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to
talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you
anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.
Another tip - know what to say BEFORE you approach a woman!
Meeting women becomes so much easier when you don't have to
waste time thinking of what to say to her to start a
conversation.
So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in
these situations is probably a good idea.
Now, when I use the term "pick up line," I don't mean the
"Nice shirt, want to have sex?" type of line that'll get you
slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be
NON-THREATENING!
A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent
conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a
good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then
continue the conversation by asking more questions about her
opinion.
Another thing - when you are approaching women, don't charge
in like you're going to war. Approach them from an angle.
This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the
woman you are engaging more at ease.
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is
comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU
to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls!
If you're not comfortable approaching women, the best way to
overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women
right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?
Simply reading about meeting women or studying techniques is
not going to help you get good at approaching women. If you
want real success, you actually have to go out in the real
world and meet lots of women so you can build your
experience level. And the cool thing is - the more you do
it, the easier it gets!
Don't be afraid of getting rejected when you do this. Look
at it as a game and distance yourself from the outcome.
You're not trying to get a date or get her into bed, your
only goal is to talk to her and strike up a conversation. If
you do that, you win!
That's all you need to do!
Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in
one day, and then try and beat your score.
The last thing you want to remember is always use a "time
constraint" when approaching a woman. This is very easy to
do - just tell her right off the bat that you're not going
to be long because you have to get back to what you were
doing.
Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that
you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will
be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more
willing to engage in your talk.
The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and
is going well, she'll forget that you used a time
constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you
want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the
approach easier in the beginning.
Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game.
You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one
special girl who will change your life.
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