There is internet coaching, personalized training, distance learning, online learning, project learning - all ways and types of technology, education, and curriculum to embrace. There are all sorts of schools, Institutes, and learning environments we can or won't attend in this life.
To my mind, they all simply return to the simple basic, laid out in so many different phrases, but all known as the "Golden Rule" or some variation:
When you hit your neighbor, the same punch comes back in your face.
This has all sorts of corollaries, a short version - you can't get without giving.
But our point is that you have to learn that what you get is exactly (and some times multiples) of what you are giving. And that is the lesson in Learning to Thrive with your life.
A long time ago, over 2 years in fact, I signed onto an Internet Scam.
You may have had a similar experience. These are run as many titles - multi level marketing, network marketing, pyramid schemes, cash gifting, business opportunity, credit fraud, - they go on and on.
Mine was eBay training through internet coaching.
After I figured out the scam, I went through all various blame games, like how criminal this bunch was - I eventually had to accept the fact that I had agreed to be scammed. Of course that then brings up the lessons of "How could I be so stupid?"
But both of those views are really wrong. I wasn't (and am not) stupid or easily fooled. And the people who “sold” me those packages are not "the devil in another disguise".
(Your milage may vary on each of these. I'm not living your life for you.)
While there is white collar crime, identity fraud, internet scams, investment fraud and more - they all work down to how they educate their victims. Life hands out instruction without regard to needing a teachers, classroom, tutors, or learning systems. How do we evaluate the learning we've received? What learning games do they play which instruct and teach?
But as I found out a major life-lesson, and I also found out that I was supposed to teach others as well.
You see, the lesson is that if you chose to live your life for others and not yourself, then all manner of good things come to you - exactly in the proportion that you serve others and to that exact quality.
You see, the lesson I learned is: chose to live your life for others and not yourself, and then all kinds of good things come to you - proportionately to degree that you serve others and to that exact quality.
Hear this: If your "business model" is to get as much money from other people as possible and then spend it on yourself, you won't be able to hang on to any of that money. If you are selling a false idea that people can "get rich quick", then true prosperity will always elude you - no matter how "hard" you "work" at any business you are part of.
The really prosperous people are thay way because they made others prosperous - first. People who achieve stable inner peace brought it to others. This is the learning environment which actually determines how your actual "living" is "made".
My refund didn't come because I worked hard at it - in fact, I had actually given up on my own refund and was working to set it up so others could learn faster than I did, so didn't fall into that same type of scam. I was simply going to tighten my belt, take my "residual income" and pay it off. And then my refund occurred.
This where I'm ask you to please post this essay on your blog or website, or any variation of it you find - and spread this word. This can actually save these scammers' employees' and associates' lives from themselves.
Scammers have the same end waiting for them as all the people they have decieved - combined. And there may be no help for them. Racketeering charges can wipe out all their wealth and their family's literally over night. But the lower-level ponzi accomplices can wise up from the ripoff they've been assisting in.
Any of the rest of us can simply forgive and move on with our lives. Just pay off our credit cards and move on. And we will find forgiveness waiting for us to that exact degree.
It's not too late for those who are working for scammers.
Those interested in Justice will ultimately prevail - as Justice is fair for all when achieved. It is inevitable that those on the "dirty end" of that stick are just going to get exactly what they have given out to others - maybe more.
All the OPM (other peoples' money) they have piled up will be gone, and more. This is their end-result for the collaborative learning we've all been part of.
All the individuals working for these people will wind up in the same fate. Their lives will be "ruined" to the same degree they have been helping "ruin" others. This is no easy scam, if there is such a thing. For we are each and individually all students of life.
So I say to those working for these scammers: quit now and work on the side of Justice. Seek to help others get their just rewards. Find peace for yourself by helping others find their own peace.
But don't ever say you haven't been warned.
There are those who watch my blogs and search just for certain words which say I've "crossed the line" and now can be harassed to make me take them down. And it's not that I haven't tried to help them learn through all these posts. And I've had to continue, even though I wanted to simply move on to other areas, with my own skills and knowledge improved - but couldn't. My readers and conscience wouldn't let me.
Because: the scammers and their associates don't get it.
But they will - in spades.
Because Justice isn't done until it is. The wheels may grind ever slowly, but they grind ever fine.
Hear this: Quit now, turn state's evidence, help others, make a new future for yourself.
It's possible to find that real happiness which already lies within you: help others regain their own happiness. Then yours will start showing up. Despite all the illegal scams you've knowingly or unknowningly been contributing to, you can still have what you've always wanted - IF you simply start working to help others get theirs, first.
That is the lesson we all have to learn, over and over and over.
And so - I wish you well. Sincerely.
It's your chance.
Others have been trying to tell you this for some time.
Listen up.
Choose your future.
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Gotten scammed and don't know how to get your money back?
Dr. Robert C. Worstell has been there, done that and not only authored a blog about his experience (http://internetscams.midwestjournalpress.com/internet-scam/5-simple-steps-how-to-get-your-refund-from-an-internet-scam/) but also wrote a book on it (http://internetscams.midwestjournalpress.com/book-the-scammer-jammer/).
You can help stop telemarketers and their Internet scams. Just follow the links above and not just get your hard-earned money back, but also help bury these scammers to they can't continue to ripoff other people.
