No matter how much you still love your ex, deep inside you know it's all over. If you do realize that it's over, be optimistic and look ahead. In reality, people do try to salvage their broken relationship even though it's over.
Before you even try to get him back, you should consider if your relationship is even worth saving. You'd have to bear with the consequences if the relationship was not meant to be in the first place. If your relationship revolves around any form of physical or emotional abuse, simply let things go and move on instead.
If you broke up because of minor misunderstanding or lacking in trust, you can still get back together with the right moves. If you can still speak the words "I love you", it is possible that he may feel the same.
Give some time for the both of you to settle down before making your move. Upon contact, you should not plea or beg him for a meeting. Instead, it's better for you to sound casual. Set up a meeting somewhere neutral where you won't make a scene.
You should know why you want him back at this point. Tell him how he would fit into your dreams for the future. Let him know that you have a place for him in your life. It should not sound like your future is gone just because he wants no part in it. You would want to give the impression of being needy.
Finally, allow him to express his feelings and listen to what he has to say. Remind him that you still love him. If everything went well, you should have a bright future together.
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