The magic of making up is a wonderful book because it approaches to problem of making a dispute between lovers in a simple, common sense, manner and starts with the premise that making up is possible in just about any broken relationship. But that is just the premise, the practical tips that follow are like relationship gold dust when it comes to how to win back your ex lover.
When anybody finds themself in a position where a relationship has just broken up their well meaning friends tend to say things like: “It’s tough but it happened for the best reason - How could you go on living with her/him.” They say things like this because they believe that it’s exactly what you want to hear. The actual affect these statements have is to drive a wedge between you and the person you have loved so dearly. The cold hard truth is that none get too many chances at love and loving relationships and it’s a giant step to walk away before you have examined every opportunity to make it work again.
The book ‘The Magic Of Making Up’ takes a far more positive approach and will help you form a plan to win back your ex-wife, your ex-husband or your ex lover without ever having to resort to pleading or grovelling. If you are going to the trouble of finding a way back into each others arms you don’t want to restart the relationship based upon grovelling or pleading. Ideally you want a good relationship to emerge from your efforts and all good relationships are partnerships of equals.
A little bit of effort now can answer a very important question that follows a broken relationship: Is it possible for us to mend the relationship and replace it with something better? If you never find the answer to that question you could spend the remainder of your life wondering and never being sure of the answer. This can lead to regret and bitterness. If you take a little trouble to discover id you can get back together you have a win/win situation.
- You mend the relationship on the best possible terms and you win.
- You fail to repair the break and you now know that you’ve tried everything and the relationship is over. You will have no regrets and move on to a new life, and love, without regrets or bitterness. You win again.
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Paul
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