Many married couples live under the same roof; with the hope to build a lovely relationship in the course of the Marriage. Today the rate of divorce reveals many are physically connected but unfortunately mentally disconnected. They make vows to dwell as one, and a certificate to prove it, but the vow they make on the wedding day has only little or no impact on the marriage. They promised to merge the two different hearts thereby producing one beat, but investigations into many homes reveals that many couples who makes such vows and promises are living very far from them.
They want to be together forever but they live complete opposites of what it takes to be together for life. The marital life is not what they expected it to be because, they constantly practice flesh connection but not heart connection; they are involve in lips connection but not mind connection. Body connection is never found wanting but soul connection is a no go area. Their hands and feet never fail to make the right connection; but their souls and minds are far apart. Self-interest is their number one priority - thereby leading to many secrets and hidden agenda - leading to divorce - they fail to detect or purposely ignore the interest of the other party.
The relationship wax cold day in day out by giving all attention to what they would benefit from the union, instead of giving attention to things that will benefit both parties. They fail to realise that by pursuing the interest of each other; the union will wax stronger. Considering the other person first is one of the strongest pillars that will secure an unshakable and everlasting union that helps to find the terrible forces of divorce.
Couples should be engaged in the marital race whereby the joy and happiness of the other individual is number one on the list. For any marriage to achieve high success self- sacrifice must be replace by self-interest. Looking out for each other is one of the greatest investments they will ever create in the course of the marriage. By so doing they become an incredible value or better still priceless assets, the returns they get will be of an incalculable benefit to them and to their children.
Migrating from the world of self interest to the world where the interest of the other party is at the top of the list is the beginning of merging two hearts, beating as one, and creating the assurance that they will be married for ever. When self-interest becomes last, the knot already tightened becomes stronger. Putting others first helps to bind and yoke together in a very strong manner, the two spirits becomes one, the two souls becomes one, the two minds becomes one and the two bodies becomes one flesh.
The bond of a common blood and covenant is vital in marriage for husband and wife to be of one accord. In order to achieve these, they need to develop new habits for the uplift of the union, this could be forming the habit of conversing with each other in a unique way, and unique treatments with diligence, treating each other with much kindness and much respect, there must be improvements in good habits that will produce better results. Couples must help each other to discard bad habits because of the great difficulties attached to overcoming bad habits.
Helping to overcome bad habits needs great sensitivity as to avoid condemnation and guilt, although if frankness and plainness are compulsory to fix things that have gone amiss, greatest simplicity is the best system to apply. This will help you to be together by common love, by common faith and by common loyalty. You will be rest assured of being married forever because your hearts are tie together. Your two hearts will be source by one beat through the tender care and sacrifices you receive from each other.
There will be a creation of new personalities, which stems from the development of new habits, the improvements on good habits and the disposition of bad habits will brings about a new person with a new lifestyle which will further strengthened the tie of the knot. Bad habits like lies and deceits will be very difficult to practice, because lying and deceiving the other person will mean lying and deceiving oneself. The truth will be what affects one person will definitely affect the other, even though externally they are two separate human beings but internally they are two hearts beating as one.
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