Once there is something happening betwee the two of you. But before that be clear about what her likes and dislikes are. And that's what the entire flirting period is for. It would be a bad idea to take her to a Chinese restaurant if she can't even stand the smell of it! If your flirting period wasn't too long or maybe lasted only a few hours or minutes, you are more liable to commit mistakes in your first date by either taking her to a place that she hates or saying something to her that she might not like.
Come what may, always find out what type she is - introvert or outgoing, nature lover or a party animal. Your first date arrangements would be more fruitful if you know that.
Unless you have dated a dozen women earlier you are bound to commit some basic mistakes if you don't think and act. You can't afford to overlook some vital aspects about your first date.
Be very clear why you want to take her out and then prepare yourself how you would say that to her. Is it simply because she is some kind of a sex bomb and you can't wait more to have a bed breaking encounter with her? If that's the reason tell her - 'let's go out someplace to know each other better.' The idea would be to get talking with one thing leading to another. Or is it because you feel there's some kind of a chemistry developing between you and her? Tell her you like the way she talks or you like her wit. Whatever be the reason make sure the two of you have a common understanding about the whole thing. Any misunderstanding from either side could spoil everything. Taking her to a hotel or a hideout would not be wrong if she has already indicated the this was on the agenda and acceptable. How to understand her indications is one important aspect that I would discuss shortly. If the lady has never gone beyond a formal conversation with you in the past, she could go ballistic at the mention of the word 'hotel'! So it's safe to be conventional in that case. Go to a good restaurant or a park or even a museum. The idea is to take her to an ambience where she comes in a mood to reveal more about herself.
Unless that happens you would only waste your time and money and effort going out with her.Many women prefer day time for their first dates. That mostly happens when they are not so sure about what kind of a person you are and what do you have in mind?
If she prefers day time go to a romantic joint where you can sit in the sun and enjoy a wholesome lunch with her. You never know! The reason to go in the day could be to spend more time with you as days are longer than evenings.
To make the most of it plan a date that is activity based like bowling, playing pool, or surfing if you are somewhere close to the sea. In excitement she would let her hair down which would give you enough confidence to talk more intimately to her. If the ambience is good she would start shedding all her inhibitions one by one...pretty much like how she would soon be shedding her clothes too!
Often there's a dilemma - where to meet her on your first date. Should she meet you right at the place where you wish to spend time together or it should be somewhere you would pick her up from? We obviously don't want you men to know our home addresses at such an early stage. What if things don't work out? Having someone stalk us for months is the last thing we want if we decide not to go ahead with you after the first date. It is always better to ask us to meet you either somewhere on the way or at the date spot itself. This would give us the privacy we expect from you on the first date.
If you are picking her up from somewhere, reach there before she reaches (don't make her wait). Once she is there, show some class in your demeanor to give her a feeling that it is a special day for both of you. Like a chauffeur, get off your car, gracefully walk up to the other side and gesture to your special woman to be seated while holding the door open! In case you are on your bike enjoy the warmth of her body as she sits clung to your back, while you speed your way to the dating spot.
Your small displays of affection can make you more endearing to her. For instance if you take her to a restaurant, gracefully lift the chair and place it behind her as she is about to sit. She would find this very pleasing and it would make her feel comfortable and very special. Imagine how naïve we are! It doesn't take you much to pamper her
This is not "Rocket Science" but every little extra effort will reap Great rewards.
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