Do you want to be a winner in the dating game? Add these 5 super-effective dating tips to your dating approach and you'll have more hot dates than you thought possible!
Don't listen to so-called experts who tell you to ask as many W questions (who, what, why, where, when etc.) as you can so you can find out what they're like so you can mould yourself to fit them. This is the WORST dating advice I've ever seen given, it is that bad. First, what on earth are you doing asking so many questions? You want to have fun not interview them! How lame is that? And as for moulding yourself so you can fit in with how others are because you like the look of them - no, no, no! Never ever do this, it communicates all of the wrong things about you and it is also deceitful. You are being someone you aren't, never a good thing, and you're obsessing about one person. Be relaxed, have fun, don't interview dates and never ever change yourself for anyone. Trust me, it isn't worth it.
Many experts bang on about clues to look for that tell you someone finds you attractive. They tell you to focus on: preening, playing with their hair, crossing their legs towards you, pointing feet in your direction, licking their lips - what an absolute load of nonsense. Forget this rubbish. If you want to get it on with someone, you select them and you create attraction with them by using your personality and your communication and by being different to the competition. If you wait for them to preen and point their feet towards you, you'll get nowhere. You want someone - make it happen and forget all about these silly attraction clues.
When getting phone numbers from new dates, do not tell them when you'll call them. Keep a sense of mystery and curiosity by saying: "I'm really busy at the moment but I'll try and call you sometime." Most people will give a specific time or ask - "I'll call you tomorrow - what's the best time?" Both are no good because they're predictable and also communicate need. Be laid back, say you'll call but don't say when and by saying you're really busy, you also communicate you have a life of your own.
Lose the urge to impress. If you feel you have to impress others with anything other than your personality, then you are communicating insecurity and it will be picked up on. It is also incredibly boring to talk about your wealth, car, job, achievements and the like as soon as you've met someone. Why? Because your saying "I have no personality whatsoever and I'm clueless as how to communicate in a way that creates attraction. So I use things outside myself to hopefully impress you so you'll consider being with me." OK, there's nothing wrong with having those things but don't use them to impress. Impressing others with anything other than you could well have less than desirable consequences. And who wants to be with people who need impressing in this way? Let your personality do the impressing and you will get a better quality of date.
Don't be boring at any point. Here's a little secret for you: 99% of people do the same things when they try and get a date. So if you do the same things everybody else does, you'll be predictable and predictable is boring and boring KILLS attraction. Be different. Don't ask boring questions, especially about work and family. Keep conversation light-hearted and fun and don't be afraid to tease a little. And whatever you do, don't fall over yourself to buy drinks or pay compliments. These two alone will mark you out as a predictable, unimaginative and boring loser, not the effect you're after I'm sure you'll agree.
You're now equipped with 5 very effective techniques to help you achieve the dating success you've always wanted. Reading is just the first part. You know have to put what you've read into action and that part is up to you. Why not give your new skills a test drive tonight?
For more dating tips,
creative dating ideas and articles and information about how you can enjoy an exciting, fabulously rewarding love life, go ahead and visit our website over at http://www.transformyourlovelife.com
