Take action
If you're not sweating, then you're not working! It's not enough to just want it and visualize it happening. The Law of Attraction works on the basis of energy, and to attract energy in, you must also put it out. Decide what little steps you need to take (no one can eat an elephant in one go, you need to take small bites) and start to actually take them.
Your feelings are your feedback devise. If you're not feeling good, then your energy isn't being submitted in the best way of attracting your goal. You can change the way you are feeling in a instant, they're your feelings so take charge. Join us on NLP Practitioner training to learn the many skills available to help you take control of your emotions.
Repetition, repetition, repetition
Nasa did an experiment with the astronaut's using upside down goggles. The astronaut's had to wear the goggles 24 hours a day. After 30 days, their brains had caught onto the scam, rewired and turned everything right side up again. This tell us that for our brains to be rewired to succeed at our goals, we need to consciously focus on our goal, consistently for at least 30 days in a row. If you find that you are not focusing on your goal every day, the problem is simple. You don't want it badly enough. At my Bedfordshire Life Coaching Practise one of the many tools I use for motivation is leverage.
Get supported
The chances are, most people in your life are not as focused and driven by The Law of Attraction as you are. This can be a real problem. When you're convinced that something can really work but the people you love and care about are telling you it's a load of poppycock, you can easily loose sight of the great potential you have. That's why, as well as believing, it's important to be around others who believe in you to. You can help yourself too, by being aware of what you absorb from others. If the TV, Radio and people around you are always focusing on the negative, then it's time to take a break from them. Don't let anyone interfere with your good feelings. If you begin feeling angry about the latest political storm being aired on tv, guess what, you end up attracting more anger into your life.
It's not working!
If you feel you've tried everything and it's still not working, try the following:
Double check that you're focus is on what you want (not what you don't want!)This include the language you are using within your own mind. If you're using any affirmations, they must be positive. You might think that you're being positive by affirming "I don't want to have fear" but your unconscious will not process the negative within the statement, leaving you with "I want to have fear." You must reframe this statement and affirm "I have peace and courage." This focuses on what you want and also presupposes that you already have it, which of course you do, you just need to expand it.
Sometimes, we have become so conditioned that we maybe "psychologically reversed." This means that you have more belief (and therefore more power) in the negative than the positive. You can test to see if you are psychologically reversed by thinking of your goal and affirming "I will achieve X" at the same time as holding your arm out firm in front of you. Get someone else to push down on your arm and test the strength as you affirm this. Then think of the opposite and affirm that "I can not achieve X." At the same time, hold your arm out in front of you and get someone else to push down on your arm to test the strength of it as you affirm this. Your arm should be stronger when you affirm "I will achieve X." If it is stronger when you affirm "I can not achieve X," then you are probably psychologically reversed. You can switch this reversal by tapping (EFT is another of the skills that I use in my Life Coaching Practice near Bedfordshire) on the karate chop point on your hand.
If you need any motivational help, advise or support then you can contact me. I offer a session of free consultation which can really help you to get a realistic plan for your goal.
Join the group
Would you be interested in joining a like minded group of people to discuss the possibilities available to you in your life? We want to start up a possibility group (it's not a cult or a religion!) where we can ask the questions about life that you can't ever really answer. Is there a god? How can we attract abundance? Can we change others?
Each week, we'll discuss a different topic and a different person will lead the group and suggest a topic for discussion each week. We are suggesting a donation of £5.00 per person to cover the cost of the room. Any profits made will go towards a charity chosen by that weeks group leader. If you would be interested in attending please email contact@peoplebuilding.co.uk
Make a contribution
Please email me to let me know about your experiences of the law of attraction working for you. Sharing your experiences will keep your belief in your ability to achieve your goals and may give someone else the belief they need too. Send your story to attraction@peoplebuilding.co.uk
If you feel that you are not receiving the best support, Bedfordshire Life Coaching could be the answer. Based near Bedfordshire, I run my Life coaching business from home and use a combination of NLP, Hypnosis and Life Coaching. Life Coaching is an effective way of establishing, where you are in life and where you want to be. Only by using the Life Coaching skills, can you truly discover the path to happiness.
Gemma Bailey is qualified hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner, registered with the General Hypnotherapy Register (GHR), American Board of Hypnotherapy (ABH), British Board of NLP (BBNLP) and American Board of NLP (ABNLP) as well as being a member of the NHS Directory of Complimentary and Alternative Practitioners.
She is based in Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire and has helped many clients and patients throughout South East England. www.gemmabailey.co.uk
