Being nervous and uncomfortable around women is an issue that millions of men are dealing with. Is there an actual solution for them to be comfortable in there own skin? This articles explores that subject...
One thing that countless men are dealing with is the issue of a woman's 'evident' sexuality and the feelings of nervousness associated with approaching, connecting and dating these women.
Let's first agree that these women we're talking about really ARE quite desirable socially and there's no denying their beauty or body. Yes, I'm talking about the cover models and the clones that look like them (oops did I say clones?!).
If you're realistic you'll probably agree you've felt some butterflies around these types of women before. I used to as well.
Did you know that this is at the core of why men are NOT successful with these women? It's ALL in the truth of relational dynamics; the relationships of power and sexuality that exist.
The words to say don't even matter because his own behavior already CHANGED in relation to her.
Now..
Is it actually even possible for a man to 'be' comfortable in his own skin in relation to this power of beauty that a sexy woman represents?
It's close to everything a man wants in so many ways yet he often doesn't stand a chance when he becomes nervous like he does.
Why? Because an individual man has attributed so much emotional energy and astronomical value to the concept of a prickteasing woman through magazines, media, porn, and the women around him.
So when a sexy woman walks into the room, his entire physiology changes and his energy shifts because of the type of relationship he already has to what she represents (he doesn't even know her yet).
And now, there are More sexy looking women than EVER before who have adopted the same attributes of the social alpha female models...platinum blonde hair, boob jobs, tight clothes, pet chihuahuas, they're literally everywhere online and in mid to large cities.
There's a growing gender gap of social power...the sexy women are being thought of so highly that they're inevitably 'scaring away' all the good men because the men have no CLUE as to what's really going on.
They continue to view these women as they do the magazine cover models..completely out of this world and out of reach. I used to edify women like this too because I was conditioned to until
I saw the TRUTH and took the power back for myself (and for women).
So CAN a man be 'comfortable' around this power showcase of sexuality and social status (that which he desires emotionally so much)?
That's easier said than done right? And why? Because millions of men have been conditioned to add value to the social (exploitation) of a woman's sexuality.
They have no true grounding or evident behavioral reality in which a woman's TRUE sexuality exists. They wouldn't even believe it if they saw it.
So they continue to see these attributes in the behaviorally adaptive women in their reality and they fall into the conditioned response mode to the socially edified stimulus of her flaunting body.
They literally start drooling like Pavlov's dog.
ANY approach this man takes hardly even matters to the woman because she knows where he is coming from.
The path to sex ironically is nothing like what the magazine editors and society dictates (for their own profit).
It's really the greatest irony in history but it's up to a man to know the behavioral truth, the power game and the relational dynamics that exist.
Fortunately there are real BEHAVIORAL answers for man today to succeed with these women he formerly didn't stand a chance with.
Unfortunately many dating experts 'admit' that women have this social power as they themselves are not clearly seeing the truth of women, so they continue to teach from the limited reality of what they see in front of them.
They're also behavioral byproducts of our social reality in which they exist, meanwhile the 'naturals' are succeeding with women because they know the truth.
If men want to succeed with the types of women they see on magazine covers, they have to understand what a woman's true sexuality is and that it's nothing like what they see on the
cover of a magazine and the behavioral byproduct results that have materialized from sexploitation.
Women are just doing it for higher social status. They KNOW it's not their true sexuality either but after a while they start to believe it and it becomes their habitual reality.
Yet it's still all a socially derived illusion; a power game of profit and manipulation.
There is a great truth that is hidden and is the path to success with all women. I encourage you to seek that truth and live in a reality instead of a fantasy.
