Should men be themselves around women? Then why does their behavior change? Let's look into this behavioral phenomenon.
Many dating experts will balk at the idea and say that if being yourself hasn't worked, then try something different. Basically 'act' and be or become someone you're not is what it boils down to.
And if you 'act' enough, you'll eventually become congruent with the act enough to get women into bed 'a certain percentage' of the time.
Unfortunately, when guys who aren't having success with women end up trying to be someone they're not, things only get even more frustrating.
It's even more unfamiliar territory and they're nervous around women as is.
Yet a few things they try such as techniques or lines to knock her 'off her pedestal' a little bit seem to work and they'll get further into developing a persona that was never really them
to begin with.
Sure lots of guys have had success with this by essentially 'becoming' the character after a lot of trial and error, yet few have the commitment to something that unnatural yet they
see it as their only option.
There's a LOT of material out there that deals in this realm.
It's time for some real answers and solutions that deal with the core issues themselves.
It's time for men to actually be their true, comfortable and powerful self around women instead of becoming someone they're not based out of ignorance to the relational reality in the first place.
I can understand the desire of men to succeed in this area, but I encourage them to look at other solutions and decide for themselves.
Do they really want to become someone they're not, playing the social power game where even the top PUA's are starting out from a powerless frame in relation to women, or do they want to truly be comfortable in their own skin and easily communicate with the most beautiful women on earth while respecting the woman and getting a lot further?
Fortunately now there IS an option for those that are looking.
I call it Alpha Relational Dynamics. It deals with more than just a man's inner game or his fight to align himself and fix himself to the reality he is ignorant to in the first place.
It's the first program I know that explains women and their behavior. To be effective we can't just improve a man and be ignorant to the truth of women, we have to understand female behavior at it's roots and know our relationship to it and what it means to us.
For men that are looking to be themselves around women and are tired of acting, it's time for a solution that will allow him to keep his power and be massively attractive to women instead of trying to entertain the woman who is higher up the social scale.
It's time for men to be powerful as themselves around beauty itself. It's time to respect himself and to actually BE himself, then women will know he's for real and can trust him to open up to a new relationship.
