A look at the social concept of 'getting a makeover'. More is going on than people realize. Let's look behind the scenes at this transformation that many women go through.
What happens in a makeover?
She's adapting her appearance followed by her behavior to the pretense and desires of her social surroundings and influences.
She's actually leveraging social power. She's becoming a stimulus for guys to respond to as they've been conditioned.
Really, she's adapting herself to the social alpha role models. Industries are secretly proud of what's going on. They are making billions of dollars off of the behavioral adaptation of women to social alpha women such as porn stars, actresses and pop star divas.
Makeup, clothing, fashion, cel phones, tanning, haircare, accessories, lingerie, and cosmetic surgery are all profitable byproducts of this mass social acceptance today.
But that's how they wanted it.
Now, it's so clear to me it makes me sick. T.V. shows and magazines that will take a girl and 'convert her' into a prickteasing pop tart clone like millions of others.
Joss Stone just got a 'makeover'. All of it is conscious and pre-thought out. Women think they are the ones with power but they are just ambassadors. They're leveraging the power of the industries without even knowing it.
They're perfect pawns in this social reality. They're above men even in the social order by taking on these attributes.
I remember when Jewel sold out. The power of social influence is so strong that most people within the culture aren't even aware of it. Why? Because it's all they see and it's all they know.
They have nothing to compare it with PLUS they're being bombarded with more and more programming which further reinforces their idea of reality; movies, magazines,
celebrity updates, television, diva's and other role models behavior and the behavior of their adaptive female peers.
There is more and more pressure for teenage girls to 'fit in' to this enormous and yet indiscreet profit machine. Makeover's are the most evident way of clearly showing the behavioral adaptation.
What is sad about this is not only the level it's reached but how they downplay her other attributes. It's gotten way out of control.
They don't value a woman for who she really is on the inside; it's all about the social adaptation to what's 'hot' and if you don't 'adapt' you'll be looked down upon.
Who is to say that THIS is how she should look, what she should wear and how she should dress?
The social alpha's (prickteases) and their clones have so much influence now that millions of women are adapting themselves anyways.
The behavior and standard becomes them. Social Alpha's I also call 'prickteases' because of their behavior. They know how to manipulate men and how to get them to 'respond' because indeed they are the 'stimulus'.
Really, it's not even the woman but the fact that she can leverage the same attributes (rooted in objectification) as men's magazine cover models. The same resources are available to her whereas men just can't wear make-up and are more limited.
There is so much pressure that all of these women have to uphold. It gives them a lot of benefits but also a lot of disadvantages. It distances them further from success with men.
It drives them far away from their natural character, yet the only men who succeed with them know that there is a natural character still there and can reach it; her escape from all of the pressure.
The jerks seem like the only ones who aren't afraid of them.
By selling out like this, an average girl can gain insta-popularity with the boys, meaning they'll attribute her to the same thing as a men's magazine cover model.
And guys are conditioned to behaviorally 'respond' to this stimulus so they end up not being able to control their behavior when they're really just objectifying her and can't see her for who she really is.
Everything has become a big popularity game with no focus on a woman for who she really is or her talents. Is making them over really aligning them more to who they really are as a person and representing their best attributes?
Or is it instead making them into a socially popular clone to get the approval of other pretentious women and insta-drool men? In the desire to 'fit in', women will do all kinds
of things in their cultural environmental which supports and promotes the behavior (for it's own benefit).
Men don't sell out as easily but they sure are confused.
The behavior of women is driving them insane. They don't realize that a woman's boob job, bleached hair and perma-tan are her social character and not her true sexuality.
If they were grounded in that fact, they could open the doors to relations with these women who they over-glorify and put on a pedestal for her social character.
'Mean Girls' is a good example of this 'makeover' and socio-cultural adaptation.
In the reality of it all, it's up to men to know where they stand and see through the massive levels of commercial interest, pretension and socio-cultural adaptation...and I mean when they're looking directly at the sexy attributes of one of these women in front of them.
They have to know their relationship to it all instantly and be grounded in the truth if they want any 'chance' with these women.
Alpha Relational Dynamics will ground men in their relationship to social influence and get them equal in relational power to the massive social powers the women they want are wielding. Only then will the doors consistently open.
He is her escape from the pressures of upholding the social status quo. He is the one who can reach the true woman inside of her that is free from all influence of adaptation.
