My favorite part of the holiday season is its steady reminder of angels. Christmas cards reflect angelic gatherings in star-filled night skies. Ancient carols tell of angels spreading great joy, or watching over shepherds and sleeping children. Decorative angels are prominently displayed on neighbors' doors; swathed in gold and surrounded by a sea of fragrant greenery.
Throughout the years, my family's Christmas tree has become an homage to angelic beings. A folk art angel, crafted in muslin and cinnamon sticks, graces the lower branches. Commercially produced angels that have captured my heart over time fill the middle space. My favorite ornaments, two intricately painted angels purchased at a 1988 craft show, hold positions of honor each year. Finally, a band of tiny Hallmark cherubs play their joyful tune from the highest branches.
For several years as a single parent, I managed to purchase a little tree for my bedroom. The children were school age and our family tree was festooned with figures of Santa Claus, Sesame Street, and their own handmade masterpieces. My special tree was adorned with twinkling white lights, unlit candles in colonial holders, and a collection of angel ornaments. Its' spiritual presence in my tiny personal space left me feeling watched over and comforted.
Angels do that, don't they?
Whether observed at Christmas, Easter, or any day of the year, their existence helps us to feel supported. But do they only hover overhead, keeping their watch from the heavens?
I don't believe angels simply remain aloft and out of reach.
The holidays can bring feelings of isolation and loneliness when one is single. But you, too, have a group of heavenly hosts in human form - your family, friends, coworkers, and acquaintances. Take the opportunity this season to recognize your angels whether you witness them in:
· the stranger who sees you struggling with a heavy load and stops to hold the door.
· the babysitter who offers to stay a few minutes longer when you're frantic and running late.
· the family member who observes a tight budget and slips a few dollars in your pocket.
· the co-worker who brings a tray of cookies to work on the morning you didn't have time for breakfast.
· the friend who offers to hem your dress or provide an extra casserole for your holiday function.
· your own little cherub who goes to great lengths to hide a school-made card reminding you of their love.
They are there; standing guard, caring and serving, waiting to be noticed.
May you experience the joy and support of angels both near and far this holiday season.
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Jennifer Snyder is a personal coach and workshop leader for women. She is the author of a self-discovery workbook, The Time of Your Life: A Creative Sourcebook for Women. The Sourcebook can be ordered at www.timeofyourlifeafterdivorce.com
