Many times I have heard that the men just popped the questio, ”Why not we get a house soon?”.
To these guys, they are equivalent to “Will you marry me?”
And many times, the ladies out there let them get away with it.
I’m talking about proposal here, be it proposal to be his girlfriend or to be his wife. Men got to understand more about ladies if they want them to be their wives.
So far, there were some interesting experiences that my friends shared with me.
One lady friend of mine repeated the exact words his boyfriend used when he wanted her to his girlfriend, ”You can be my girlfriend, can't you?” and it came out of sudden at a coffeeshop.
How can this guy proposed in a coffeeshop?
For other lady friends, others just just go out too often enough such that the girl may assumed that they are dating.
For instance, this friend of mine went out twice a week with this guy to places they both liked.
After six months, the girl grew confused whether or not this guy was serious about her. Then, this guy started to ask her abouot her opinion of another girl that he had crush on.
Then, one month later this guy held her hand out of sudden and walked along, assuming nothing or assuming that she had agreed to be his girlfriend.
I think I shouldn’t shortchange the guys who did a proper proposal. I do have some S.N.A.G friends…(SNAG stands for "sensitive new age guys".)
This guy friend of mine sang a song at a pub and proposed right after the song. Of course, he coordinated with the pub’s boss and went earlier to practice.
During the proposal, there were about 50 other guests around. Impressive, isn't it?
Another friend of mine was deployed with his 8 brothers to a beach and they used sprinklers to create firework effects. They were arranged in the shape of a heart.
As for me, I did an Eiffel Tower and placed the little proposal ring on top of the tower and let my then-girlfriend finds it.
The proposal process should be a scary, exciting, anxious, overwhelming experience for the couple. It could be some thing that they both will look back and remember dearly.
And always remember ladies expect men to understand more about them. (If you can ask your boyfriends to read this post, proposal should be done with sincerity, conviction and from the bottom of the guys’ hearts, isn’t it?)
