Kissing a woman for the first time can be a nerve wracking moment. Of course we enjoy smooching on a girl as much as the next guy, but we just aren’t sure if she’s enjoying it as much as we are. Women and men are looking for different things when they kiss, and most men don’t know what women want in a kiss.
Luckily, I met an older lady a few years ago who showed all of this to me.
Here are three keytips for men who want to be better kissers:
Kissing Tip for Guys #1 – Kiss Her As Early As You Can
On the first time you’re out together, there’s often some kind of tense energy. Once you two kiss, that feeling disappears, and you two can have fun with the rest your interaction.
Kissing her early also sets the tone on the speed that the relationship is going to proceed. If it takes you three dates to work up the nerve to make the move on her, then she probably sees you as a person who’s going to take her on dates to dinners and movies for months before being intimate with her. If you make the move 25 minutes into your first date, she will probably see you as a person she can have a hot relationship with very fast.
Kissing Tip for Guys #2 – During the First Kiss, Be Soft
There’s not many things worst for a woman than a man shoving his tongue into her throat on the first kiss. Similiarly, a man attempting to sweep her off her feet by throwing her against the wall the first time is more likely to come off vulgar than attractive.
There’s plenty of room for that in the future. For the first kiss, focus on giving her a gentle, sensual, electrifying kiss.
Kissing Tip for Guys #3 – Add Variety Over Time
The gentle and sensual kiss will become stale pretty easily. Even smooching will likely become stale if that’s all you do
Change your kisses around to keep the spark and spirit alive. Let your hands roam over her body in different sexy ways. Try kissing her slowly, fast, passionately, sensually, playfully, or even messily.
Guys always get far too caught up in doing kissing ”correct”. If you’re putting pressure on yourself to do it right, you can be assured that she can tell. And being worried about doing something right to show off to her isn’t very attractive. Simply have fun when you kiss, and she’ll have fun too.
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