Women Loved,
Men Appreciated!
By David Breth
Part One
As you know, women like to be appreciated too. This is the first relationship article composed by me in a series of articles geared toward 'practical' relationships.
Men love to be patronized. We are like an M&M candy, hard shell on the out side, but really tender on the inside. Like the commercials state
"melts in your mouth, not in your hand"
, oh how true this is when applied to relationships. We men usually have a 'seemingly' hard shell, but the truth is told here and now - this is usually just an ego-feeding cover-up. Most of us, the majority of men are as soft as the smooth, fine chocolate you find after melting that 'hard' shell off of an M&M candy. You see us men wear just as much, if not more make up than women do, with all our fake macho talk and 'hard shelled' ways.
Note: The following information is NOT a chauvinist point of view, please do not read between the lines and you may reveal a beautiful work of written art.
A woman can do many tasks around the house for her family, she can create the most exquisite of meals, drive the children to school and clean the house. Some have stated that
"the way to a mans heart is through his stomach"
, though this may be true (and usually is-smiling) to a degree the M&M commercials come back to mind
"melts in your mouth, not in your hand"
, you as a caring wife and mother may do all these "Wonderful Things" for your husband and yet, it seems as though you are under appreciated, seldom cherished and over looked for your very hard work and many accomplishments.
This is where once again the M&M commercials come to life
"melts in your mouth, not in your hand"
. Us men love to be patronized. All that you attempted to achieve with your hands, though may have been thoughtful, usually will not be as successful as what you can do with your mouth. The words you speak create ice and rain or sparks and then a raging fire!!!
It may take some time to get in the swing of this highly-effective tool and it also may be some time before it is received from you, by him. Begin by verbally telling your husband "how secure you feel with him around" and "how much you need him". Do this and do this often at least once to twice per day, randomly and you will start to see a change. Your man will melt not from what you have attempted to do with your hands, but what you state from your mouth.
"melts in your mouth, not in your hand"
Tangible Idea: Buy several M&M bags (the small packets will work just fine and place them in different areas of your house (kitchen cabinets, bathroom pantry, dresser, etc), purse, car, work, etc.), when you come across these bags they will act as a reminder to you. Ah, yes, my husband is like an M&M candy he
"melts in your mouth, not in your hand"
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Part two "What Will Have Your Wife Swooning" coming next week
