Bullies are never as tough as they want you to believe. Most are without friends, and are far more insecure than you are. Look them in the face and never back down from their threats.
Back in my school days, even at the office, I don't recall any bullying challenges. Maybe I've just forgotten but don't think that's the case. Few of my friends had such problems with someone being BAD or taking advantage of the situation. Most of us just were supportive of each other and no one dared to challenge any of us.
All of that sounds really good.... we were tough and no one bothereed us. However, maybe that's not the situation at all. Actually, times have changed in the school system, even at the office. Boldness is on the rise. Bullies have risen to the surface where none existed before.
On the other hand, you cannot allow "fear" to be your guiding star as you encounter others in the marketplace. School? Office? Plant? In the Mall parking lot? Inside the Mall? Gas station? Here's where the bullies are showing up.
Honesty is not the same as before. Regain the integrity that belongs. Value systems have changed. It's sad but true in far too many areas of life that we have lost direction in how to live our lives as good citizens, responsible, trustworthy.
What's happened? Value systems seem to be screwed up for some. The ugly head of pride shows up. Adults and peers have lost their respoect. Family values. Neighborhoods are searching for parents who care. Many Teachers who take pride in their work are lost in trying to keep classroom peace.
You and I cannot vouch or take responsibility for the world or those around us.... only for ourselves. It's up to us to be the leaders - a guiding light - to show others what life is all about and how to live.
We must step up without intimidation or fear. Look those you encounter in the eye with confidence. Kind words and good thoughts will go a long way toward difusing conflicts with others, especially the bully.
Bullies are more afraid than you are. Stay your ground, never give up. Walk with your head held high with a spark in your step. You can difuse most bullies simply by letting them know they can not intimidate you.!
Have you noticed? Most bullies are seldom alone but have their "like-kind" buddies along for protection should they encounter a challenge from someone like you or your friends. Few bullies are loners as they seek their prey but have "friends" along "just in case" things don't go as planned.
Over the years, I've seen many bullies back down when they meet the guy/gal with determination and those who refuse to be intimidated by their antics of fear or attempts to control classmates.
Your power of intention stays with you. Few people will get in your way when they understand you are focused and directed toward a specific goal. Always stay the course and fight for the right to be your very best regardless of the future.
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Don Monteith spent 32 years as co-owner of several franchises. Every year, his firm placed hundreds of job candidates annually. Today, Don shares his business and career expertise through articles for publishers and his websites on the Internet. Lots of FREE ideas - suggestions - ready for your perusal and study.
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