If your partner never used dildo and any sex toys, there is a possibility that he/she doesn't have an adequate attitude towards this kind of sexual joy. Therefore, suggesting your partner to use a dildo in your sexual play be very careful and follow our tips.

Never put it like ultimatum by saying things like 'If you don't want to do that you don't love me'. Accusatory method will only increase your partner's mistrust in you.

It is not a good idea to introduce a dildo during the actual intercourse. More likely, you won't be understood, besides you may spoil your partner's pleasure.

Don't make it a subject of discussion with friends. It should be an intimate topic discussed by two of you, not by the bunch of your buddies at a party.

Start the conversation by mentioning that you are satisfied with your sex life and thinks that your partner is a great lover. Otherwise he/she may start thinking that you are not happy with your present sex life and that he/she don't fully satisfy you.

Bring it as an experiment. You can accentuate that your partner's pleasure is the main objective for you.

Create a romantic atmosphere, it will relax your partner and get into sexual mood.

There are lots of movies commenting how to use different sex toys, or simply any erotic movie. You can get one and watch together, giving your own comments while watching the part about dildos. Involve your partner in this discussion and listen to his/her thoughts. It is very important to listen, show your willingness to listen and more important- reply. Explain, calm your lover down, be understanding and patient. Don't expect your partner to get happy about the idea at once.

If your partner is interested and wants to try, don't just bring a dildo saying – here it is lets try it. Even if you already own one, keep it for yourself. Besides, your partner may feel uneasy about the fact that you secretly used a dildo without him/her. Your partner should feel that it was your mutual choice not only yours.

So, it is better to pick up a new dildo together. Actually, it is also lots of fun. You will enjoy it for sure.