You have established a fairly strong relationship online. But, there are thousands of miles between you, and to top it off there is a three hour time difference! You find yourself frustrated most of the time.

You will have to “creatively” and “mentally” occupy his thoughts as much as possible.

By using your imagination, you can make up for the mileage distance, and it is not hard to do.

Create a romantic and slightly erotic “story” and email parts of the story each night. I call it my Adult Bedtime Story. If you don’t feel you have the creative skills to do this, then you may have to cheat a little.

Close your eyes...think of your favorite movie scene that was romantic and or erotic. Replay it in your mind...then just write it out! Change the setting and the characters, and there you have it. Let that be your foundation...just continue to add to it. It can go on forever...

Let’s say it starts with the two of you meeting while walking your dogs. Later, you both decide on a picnic in a very secluded area. Think of it this way: if you had the opportunity to meet him right now in a secluded area of a park, what would you do? Once you have that, just write it down.

What if...he invites you to dinner at a formal restaurant...he picks you up...you turn your back to him as he fastens your necklace for you...(you can take this scenario and make it as romantic and erotic as you like!)

I suggest sending a “romantic” paragraph or two each night. Eventually working your way up to a couple of “hot” paragraphs...and eventually you might want to send an “erotic” paragraph.

Not only will you be on his mind before he falls asleep, you will also stay on his mind the following day!

Please make sure you know the recipient of your story well. They must understand that this is just erotic/romantic fun...and that you are not a sex fiend!

Get a head start...start writing!