Is it online love? That is a difficult question...only the two hearts that are involved knows the true answer.

One of the main issues I find is that most singles are so desperate for love that they label any unidentified emotion as “love”. And we usually find out the hard way...that it wasn’t love at all!

We walk away despondent, and even lonelier than before. It becomes a vicious, heart wounding cycle.

The sad part is, each time we allow ourselves to board this emotional roller coaster, we lower our expectations of love.

After we have been bruised and beat up by our “definition” of love repeatedly, our self worth and personal value is so damaged, we are “easy picking’s” for a lot of online losers.

That is why I believe the answer to the question, “is it online love?” Is probably a loud, bold letter “NO!”

It is more than likely loneliness, desperation, and even lust.

But at this point, we are targeted by online “emotional rapists” that bend over backwards trying to convince us, that it is “online love”.

I’ve learned, to protect my emotions from the online “emotional rapist”. Over the years, I have been criticized...for not being “emotionally available”. You can only guess where the criticism came from...you’ve guessed it! It usually came from someone that turned out to be one of the online “emotional rapists”!

Once you clearly identify an “emotional rapist”, block them immediately, and end all contact! They will hurt you...each and every time!

Side step “them”...find “your’s”...and have a blast!