Making Choices to Be Happy-2



Many times we are happy when we are around people who are positive and happy themselves. Those kinds of people were not born with a different set of values or even an obvious funny bone. Somehow they have learned to enjoy the little things and let the daily troubles slide right off.

Everyone has those kinds of choices. They are a daily occurrence that we each face, such as traffic jams, an irritable person in the family, and a long line at the bank or grocery store. Sometimes we find ourselves even facing choices because of something as simple as the weather or as difficult as finances. The way we handle these daily happenings is going to determine how we act and feel and certainly how others perceive us.

Part of making choices depends upon our own attitudes and whether or not we are generally positive. Each person needs to take an account of their behavior and their feelings and be able to verbalize how they feel in many situations. By tuning into how we feel if we are lonely, dejected, and unhappy or even being ignored, we can learn if there might be better options for our behavior and some way to choose to act in any of those situations.

Choices we make will determine how we feel at any given time. The friends we enjoy being around make personal decisions to be happy and not be “down in the mouth”. We can do the same thing by watching others who always seem happy and by making conscious efforts to keep ourselves in a happy place and not let the little things bug us or make us react negatively. Being a positive person is a choice that takes time to learn to do but becomes easier the more times we do it. We can actually learn to love life simply by making choices that make us happy and choosing to react in a happy way.

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