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How to Become an Ideal Leader


When you are at work, do you get frustrated because things don't seem to be happening the way they’re supposed to be? You see people milling around but nothing gets accomplished. And in the daily hustle and bustle, do you feel that your goals remain just that – goals. Then maybe its time for you to stand up and do something about it.

Most people are content just to stand around listening for orders. And it isn't unusual to adopt a follow-the-leader mentality. But maybe, somewhere inside of you, you feel the desire to make things happen – to be the head, not the tail. Then maybe leadership just suits you fine.

Some people believe that great leaders are made, not born. Yes, it may be true that some people are born with natural talents. However, without practice, without drive, without enthusiasm, and without experience, there can be no true development in leadership.

You must also remember that good leaders are continually working and studying to improve their natural skills. This takes a commitment to constantly improve in whatever endeavor a person chooses.

First of all, let's define leadership. To be a leader, one must be able to influence others to accomplish a goal, or an objective. He contributes to the organization and cohesion of a group.

Contrary to what most people believe, leadership is not about power. It is not about harassing people or driving them using fear. It is about encouraging others towards the goal of the organization. It is putting everyone on the same page and helping them see the big picture of the organization. You must be a leader not a boss.

First of all, you have to get people to follow you. How is this accomplished?

People follow others when they see a clear sense of purpose. People will only follow you if they see that you know where you are going. Remember that bumper sticker? The one that says, don't follow me, I'm lost too? The same holds true for leadership. If you yourself do not know where you're headed to, chances are people will not follow you at all.

You yourself must know the vision of the organization. Having a clear sense of hierarchy, knowing who the bosses are, who to talk to, the organization's goals and objectives, and how the organization works is the only way to show others you know what you are doing.

Being a leader is not about what you make others do. It's about who you are, what you know, and what you do. You are a reflection of what you're subordinates must be.

Studies have shown that one other bases of good leadership is the trust and confidence your subordinates have of you. If they trust you they will go through hell and high water for you and for the organization.

Trust and confidence is built on good relationships, trustworthiness, and high ethics.

The way you deal with your people, and the relationships you build will lay the foundation for the strength of your group. The stronger your relationship, the stronger their trust and confidence is in your capabilities.

Once you have their trust and confidence, you may now proceed to communicate the goals and objectives you are to undertake.

Communication is a very important key to good leadership. Without this you can not be a good leader. The knowledge and technical expertise you have must be clearly imparted to other people.

Also, you can not be a good leader and unless you have good judgment. You must be able to assess situations, weigh the pros and cons of any decision, and actively seek out a solution.

It is this judgment that your subordinates will come to rely upon. Therefore, good decision-making is vital to the success of your organization.

Leaders are not do-it-all heroes. You should not claim to know everything, and you should not rely upon your skills alone.

You should recognize and take advantage of the skills and talents your subordinates have. Only when you come to this realization will you be able to work as one cohesive unit.

Remember being a leader takes a good deal of work and time. It is not learned overnight. Remember, also, that it is not about just you. It is about you and the people around you.

So, do you have the drive and the desire to serve required of leaders? Do you have the desire to work cooperatively with other people? Then start now. Take your stand and be leader today.
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About me: Welcome, my name is Sherri Lynn Rakes and I have four children, two step children and two grand babies. We Live in Olive hill KY. My home town I was born and raised in is Ashland, KY. I sing and write songs, and do Marketing on line. In the year 1999 in mid September, I had a accident. I fell on concrete steps and hurt my neck, back and shoulders after my singing career and TV show was doing well. It put me down for a year and when I was getting better, I was in a car wreck in April 1,2001. I had incomplete tears in L5 and S1 in my lower back, whiplash for the second time. A man ran a red light at 65 miles per hour and T-Boned me in my drivers side door. I remember yelling, "Jesus help me, I was blessed to be alive. I was on thirteen different medications at one time and almost gave up. I never thought I would have a life again. I prayed and researched Vitamins so I could get better, I couldn't stand prescriptions anymore. I wasn't myself on them. The pain was unbelievable. God gave me hope and put wonderful people in my life Since then to help me. Since 2004, I am off all prescriptions, work, travel and enjoy my family once again. If you are experiencing any of the same things please don't give up. There is hope in Jesus and He will do the same for you. Vitamins and natural herbs can help, I am not saying all medications are bad. Pain pills, Muscle relaxers and Valium can destroy your life so please try other alternatives if possible, you see it everywhere on the news how people are letting it destroy there life because of addiction, I know, I was there once and I saw how it can become a problem. I still have Osteoporosis, Fibromyalgia and back problems along with pain every day, God helps me deal with it as well as Vitamins and Herbal Vitamins. Life well I am Loving It! Hang in there, there is hope and Love to see you through. Don't give up on your dreams even if you had to put them on hold for awhile. You may fail but you have to have failure before you have success. We all need more Inspiration in our lives!!!!! One Women who really inspired me not to give up on my dreams was Naomi Judd. She is from our home town in Ashland, KY and She helps our Community a lot. In 1998, Naomi helped collect can food to feed the hungry. I was talking to her and that is when she told me, "Love your Home town because it is where your roots are and never give up on your goals and dreams. Help others and you will be blessed. I have never forgot those words She told me. It was one of the things that kept me going when I got hurt. Naomi is a wonderful person and so are Her daughters. She gave me permission to sing "Love Can Build A Bridge". It is on my first tape I ever made. I have learned over the years the power of "Love Can Build A Bridge" and if you haven't read her book you need to, it is great. God Bless you Naomi Judd and thanks for the inspiration! I made a video of me singing this song and will have it on soon. God Bless Everyone! If you would like to work from Home, go to my Business links.

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