What Your Reasons For Lying Tattle
Starting with a white lie and continuing from there, we’ve all been guilty of various shades of fabrication. The way you lie significantly reflects your make up.
To Avoid Work:
Would you believe that psychologists say you do this in order to prevent anxieties that come with being triumphant. Believe it.
To Disguise Your Feelings:
Feeling unprotected, your deviation is so that you do not become exposed.
To Draw Praise:
In order not to let others know that you suffer from low self worth, at least in some areas anyway.
To Draw Sympathy:
On account of believing love and compassion are the same.
To End A Relationship:
Why aren’t you straight at the bitter end? Because you are not prepared for the identical retaliation.
To Escape Punishment:
When your fabrication started in your younger years and because you saw a measure of success by avoiding the rod, your continuing to carry on accordingly has resulted, not only in others seeing you as not being upright, but your own view of self has dwindled, owing to your loss of self esteem, by simply not being truthful.
To Get A Job:
This is more a rationalization based upon the premise that you’re sure if given the opportunity you’d do great.
To Hide Your Age:
Being convinced you are actually not trying to get something, but that you are trying not to lose something. You know that you are really only withholding
information, as opposed to flagrantly lying.
Pathological:
Whether you believe the lies that you fabricate concerning just about anything imaginable, remains one of the big controversies amongst analysts. Nevertheless, besides needing great therapeutical assistance, a major factor which must be borne in mind, is not having a true understanding of who you really are.
To Win An Argument:
You often are eventually found out; yet even at the point in the argument when the other party does not know that you’ve lied and you win, you go away feeling empty, lousy. Why? Because although they don’t know that you’ve lied, you do.
Joel Engel is the author of "Handwriting Analysis Self-Taught" (Penguin Books). For more information, please visit: http://careertest.ws http://www.learngraphology.com
