Everyone has suffered through the agony of an ended relationship at least once in their life. Most advice you find simply tells you to move on with your life.
What if you don't want to be a victim? What if you want your ex back in your life and are willing to work for it? What if you want your ex back, and don't want to simply move forward?
More than 90% of break ups are reversible. Those are pretty good odds if you do it right. This is merely a stumbling block to living the rest of your life together with your ex. Here are some tips that will help you in your quest to get my ex back.
Realize what truly caused your ex to leave. There was probably an argument, a fight, a final straw if you will. This is not the cause of the breakup. It is usually a combination of things over time that caused the rift. Chances are the blame belongs to both of you and not just one of you.
Most of the time it is not your actions but an attitude you display. Are you over critical? Are you too controlling? Are you guilty of not listening? Do you regularly disrespect them or what they say? Did you take your ex for granted? Hopefully you get the picture and idea here.
You can say you're sorry for an individual action, however this will not have the same effect of apologizing for the way you made your ex feel.
Take this example. Would your ex be more upset that they think you have disrespected them, or that you were flirting with someone else?
You have to step into the mind of your ex and see things from their perspective. Which apology would be more likely to get back an ex? I'm sorry I was flirting, or I apologize for not considering how my actions made you feel unappreciated? If you get this right, you're half way home.
Next tip, be attractive. I am not only talking about being physically attractive. People are attracted to strong minds. Do not be needy. Nothing is uglier than someone who needs constant attention. We are not much different than animals when it comes to survival of the fittest. We are attracted to people who have strength of character, who are not always needy and clingy. We want a mate who can take care of themselves.
How many of you girls are smitten by a total wimp? How many men want a wife or future mother of your children that is unstable by themselves? This is how our brains are hard wired. Nothing could make you more attractive to your ex than them believing you don't need them.
Lastly, jealousy is the one thing you can do that will ruin your chances of getting your ex back. Trying this ploy will practically guarantee you WILL NOT get back your ex. This is almost always very transparent, and screams that you are desperate (see needy above). Your ex will be happy you are now someone else's problem.
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