If you and your partner have been playing tricky and lame childish games in the relationship, then I will have nothing to say, but to say a sweetest goodbye to your relationship. Your relationship has already come to the bottom of the pail which the efforts, hard work and relationship making have turned to a naught. It is hard to believe for both of you, because it is a fact. Why am I saying that it is a fact is because you and your partner have been playing stupid games that end up losing trust, beliefs and the faith that both carry. If I am not saying all these points, you will never realise which areas you have done wrong and continue making the same cycles over and over again that seem very irrelevant to you and everyone who has been accompanying till they are sick of you. Do you like these scenarios to happen?
Let me show you what I have heard from your closest friends, colleagues, relatives and your peers for the actions that you have done. The types of games are so complicated and childish that maybe people are already sick of you. Not even your partner, she does not like the way you do to her. No matter how many times you like to play such games to your partner and yourself, ultimately, you will fee the taste of getting bad treats in return, the negative effects of the games you play will pour onto you that do not show any benefits to you, which is why I suggest that it will be good if you can stop yourself from doing. However, I like to share with you what you can have seen or what have you done and reflected yourself for the tricks and complicated games with your partner and yourself in the relationship.
You must have seen many plays. You might have acted in one or two. In your relationship drama, are you playing any role? You play roles in your life in many situations and most of the times you are unaware about that. Let’s discuss some relationship roles. One of the common roles is to play the victim. ‘Your partner is the victimizer and you are the victim. He/she has no care for you or your feelings. He/she doesn’t pay any attention to your comfort or desires. All right, you say, if that is your fate. You will continue because you don’t want to look bad by breaking the relationship. You will not utter a word.’ Do you recognize this pattern? Have you not seen people playing such roles in relationships?
Another common role is - You will never be able to make your partner happy. These people complain about their partners that whatever they do, their partner is always unhappy. ‘You can bring him/her gifts, but you know that he/she will either not like them or find faults with the gift. If you suggest anything to make him/her feel good, you know that he/she will criticize that suggestion. You can keep on trying to make your relationship happy but you will fail. Sometimes you feel that you should stop trying.’
These are two examples of roles, people play in any relationship. People play many roles and once you try noticing, you will always find a pattern in such people. Playing roles destroys a relationship. Because once you decide to play a role, you will not easily stop playing it. That will stop most of the healthy communication and make the relationship a burden. A relationship is meant for joy. Role-playing kills the joy.
Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.
I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.
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