What sort of relationship advices that we have to look into? I guess that most of us are thinking of ways to improve their relationships despite the odds that we have been facing. Well, these really depend on the couples. If they do not really like each other after they have accidentally made the mistakes, perhaps they have already thought of having breaking up because they simply can not be bothered to stay or no longer staying any much longer.
However, I will like to share some few key points to you that there is nothing that is so impossible for any breaking up cases. That is because everyone of us are so eager to do our own stuffs. You may often remember as a child who is singing the words “This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine brightly.” Just recently, we have bought our friend’s wonderful album and DVD “Live in Dublin” and actually one of the selections in this very special, unique and forcing collection of folk songs is his version of “This little light of mine.”
Our friend’s and the sessions band have sung it this way… well, this little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine brightly, brightly, brightly… everyday, everyday, everyday.
What a simple yet some powerful lesson for all of us to remember to help us always create the life destiny and the true meaning of life and relationships that we really want. Therefore, what does it mean to let your light to shine? And what does it mean in order to let our light shine in our making up relationships to a greater height? Does it mean that we have to constantly have a big sparkling smile on our face, no matter what has been happening in our lives and no matter what has been done to us or those that we love?
We always think that the idea of having your life shine the best is very personal, unique and special to each and every person. It always means that we do live our lives from the inspiration without hiding behind fear, mistrust, limitation and any other old negative stories about ourselves and others. They have also written a wonderful book that is called “Zero Limits” and in it, a doctor has said that in every single moment, you are often living your life from either memory or inspiration.
In other words, perhaps your internal representations or thoughts and actions can originate either from experiences and fears from the past or from any place of possibility, openness and a knowing that wells up inside anyone of you. There is this inspiration; the “light” is this inspiration, the place from which you can act from or “shine” as much of the time as possible.
We can give you a very practical example… As you may know that we have always been in the process of selling our house and purchasing another type of house in a cosmopolitan and complicated city about an hour from where we have been living now. During this process, we have had the plenty of opportunities to notice whether we were acting from a place of memory or from any inspiration and shining our light to each other, as well as the rest of the world.
When we have actually thought or acted from any form of memory, especially the events from the past that needs to be healed, we have not been very open to each other and there has always been a feeling of disconnection. However, when we have acted from the pure inspiration and love, our connection has always felt very strong and we have been feeling sure of the stepping stones that we are taking that are the right ones for us during this period of time? So, how do you live from the inspiration and let your light shine most of the time?
That is certainly a very big question. It is always one that we live with everyday and here are some ideas that we will share with you that you have helped us to live from the inspiration more of the time. We always think that they could help you as well…
The first point is perhaps, if you feel uneasiness that is coming up inside you or you are triggered by what someone else is doing or saying, stop yourself before you react from "memory" or the way you've always reacted before. Do always feel what's coming up inside you. You might know where these feelings are coming from and you might not be able to identify a memory or reason for your feeling or reaction. Does this mean that the other person is "blameless"? It is of course not. But if you want to live your life with more ease and have more love, you have to start with you and what's going on inside you.
The second point is perhaps you can find a way to love yourself and that memory. If you have no clue about what memory is coming up, just love yourself with your thoughts and even your words. We've discovered that when we do, the situation becomes easier and there's a feeling of letting go and relaxation.
The third point is maybe you can allow room for inspired action. Open to listening to the other person and say what's true for you so the other can hear. True inspired action can come from this type of honest dialog. We know because this is what we try to practice in every moment. Anyway, this particular week, you can always allow your light to shine as brightly as a star as you live your life more from any inspiration than the memory. If you can do so, you will discover how much joy and love that can come towards you.
Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.
I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.
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