Who The Heck Are They Texting With?

Do you have a wife that's on the Blackberry all day and night texting away with someone? Do you ever wonder exactly who she's texting and what they are talking about?

I'm sure she's told you it's just a friend and nothing important. She claims she's just bored and passing time with friends. But what is so important that she would be on that Blackberry for so many hours a day.

Many times it is just innocent fun but very often it's clear sign of infidelity. Going on right under your nose.

Signs of infidelity.

1. She does not let you see the texts.
2. She deletes the texts right after reading them.
3. She guards her cell phone or Blackberry, hides it or locks it with a password.

These are definite signs that's some thing's up and that something is likely to be infidelity. Oh you can hope and pretend she's planning a surprise party for you but that only happens on bad sitcoms. She's planning a surprise alright and it will probably come by process server when she files for divorce.

If you confront her about your suspicions she will probably deny it. At that point if you demand to see the messages they will already be deleted . But did you know that for less than the cost of a weeks spousal support you can send that phone out to a forensic lab and have all the deleted text messages, pics, caller ID and address book entries undeleted?

We can all agree that it's better to know the truth rather than live with suspicions. It's better to be prepared for a break up than be surprised by one and it's better to trust your spouse rather than suspect them.

If you want to put an end to this suspicion you can send the phone to a private investigator that has experience in hand held digital forensics. You can send it out by overnight mail and get it back with a detailed report in a few days.

There are other signs of cheating you can look for also like secret personal ads and Myspace pages. If you are going to examine the phone or Blackberry you might as well investigate her online activity as well. An Internet Infidelity Investigation can be done with just an email address. There's no software to purchase or download and there's no hacking or password stealing involved. It's all perfectly legal.

If you decide to hire a PI be sure to hire one that is recognized in the industry as an expert in Internet infidelity investigations and cell phone forensics. Do a Google search on their name before hiring them. Either way it's time to get these suspicions behind you one way or the other.

Ed Opperman is president of Opperman Investigations Inc.He is considered an expert in cellular forensics and Internet Infidelity Investigations. Visit WWW.EmailRevealer .com for an end to your suspicions.