Many of we women as children were told that 'life's a struggle'. So no surprise then that life, or even just knowing what we want, turns out to be hard or difficult. We believed what we were told, and made it real.
In fact, life and achieving can be a delicious adventure.
So, every time you hear that 'struggle' voice all you need to do is thank it for its advice, however wrong, and let it know that "right now I'm ....". Insert on the dotted line whatever you are in fact doing in the moment, like reading this article, writing a report, or baking chocolate cake. My favourite!
Instead of fighting your 'gremlins', this simple act of acknowledging them and focusing on the 'now' makes them subside in intensity and frequency with a delicious relief. They just don't know that life can be a ball whatever your circumstances.
Use these 6 Principles To Succeed At Anything and discover how...
#1 - Know What You Want! We're usually trained to talk about and focus on what we *don't* want. Crazy, huh? "I don't want to be poor.? So what do you imagine the brain programmes in? Only use what you don't want as a starting point, and then ask yourself, "What do I want instead?" Your brain will then programme in the correct message, the thing that you want, big time every time!
#2 - Be Aware & Alert! Use all of your senses to monitor what's happening so you can check out whether you're moving towards what you want or not. Want to pass your brain surgeon exams? How good are your knowledge and practical skills? How positively does your consultant behave with you? What's the quality of the feedback you're getting, and did your last patient survive? If not...
#3 - Be Flexible! If what you're doing isn't working then change it! Einstein said that to keep on doing the same old thing and to expect different results is insanity. Think about and experiment with different ways to achieve what you want. That hammer's not opening the tin? Well just find the right tin-opener then!
#4 - Establish Excellent Rapport! Get sensitive with what's going on with you to be able to do that 'Aware & Alert' thing. *And* build mutually rewarding relationships with other people who can support you in achieving what you want.
#5 - Keep Your Spine Straight! Check that out now. How do you feel when you straighten your spine? A whole different experience, eh?
#6 - Take Positive Action! If you don't get your butt into gear and do something positive to achieve what you want, and then the next thing, and the next thing... absolutely nothing will happen. So... go girl go!
Use these 6 Principles To Succeed At Anything on a regular basis and I guarantee you'll succeed at whatever you choose to do.
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With 30 years' expertise in personal & professional development,
Sharon Eden MA is a Certified Coach, Registered & Accredited Psychotherapist & NLP trainer, and founder of
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