In writing a best man speech, the person writing it can become so excited and may forget to include important things. On the contrary, he may also include not so important thoughts. This list of do's and don'ts in writing and preparing the speech may help the man who will be doing it.
First, do speak and take time to emphasize the point of the speech but do not talk and talk that the people are not listening anymore. The bride and the groom's attention is very important to be taken by the speech.
Second, do make the people laugh and state some jokes but do not go on joking around when the bride and the groom are not laughing anymore. It is important to keep in mind that the goal of the best man speech is to honor the groom and not to make him a laughing stock.
Third, do take deep breaths and grab some drink before speaking in the microphone but do not drink too much especially wine. This is because no one would want to listen to a drunken best man talking in front. The worst thing that can happen is to forget the sentences of the speech while talking.
Fourth, do make the best man speech as sincere as possible but do not over empathize for other people might doubt the real intention of the best man to the groom. The speech can be personal but avoid citing instances or things that the bride and the groom might feel embarrassed. Either the bride will get mad or just pretend not to hear you anyway.
Lastly, do enjoy the moment but do not be overwhelmed. One might present a very warm and solemn best man speech when everybody listened and wiped their tears but the groom and the bride might not be so happy about it. In short, never steal the limelight. Keep in mind that the ceremony is mainly for the couples.
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