Johnny Depp is a dude. Hugh Jackman is a dude. Even perennially cute Hugh Grant is a dude. Going desi, Abhishek Bachchan is a dude. There are some guys/boys/men you see and the only way to describe them is, "Now that's a dude." Yet there are others who you know are the 'undudes'. But who is an undude and are you dating one? Don't be in the blind.
Here's how you spot an undude and completely avoid him!
When you're at a party
Before you see him, you will hear him. While the dudes will be chilling, the Undude will be screaming, "C'mon everybody, let's groooove. ld's a parrrty." It's easier spotting them at a costume party - the Batmen, Zorros and Supermen are easily the undudes. No imagination and a preference for spandex.
When you are at work
The loudest mouth, the biggest ideas and an eagerness to please the higher ups. That's an undude.
Before you get into bed with him!
If you're considering his-place-or-yours, here's a small test to check the 'dude-ability' of your lust/love interest. A dude, will ALWAYS carry condoms in his wallet. An undude will never. Check the moment there's any opportunity-preferably when you are still contemplating 'it'. If you don't find one, cut the contemplation and get out.
When it's time for goodnight
The ultimate test is the goodbye-kiss stage. A dude will either shake hands or kiss your cheek. The undude however, before you know, will either have his tongue in your mouth or his hands all over you. Practice groin kicks and move on.
When you're playing the field
Women who date will tell you that the hardest thing yet is going through a series of undudes before you meet The Dude. Hopefully, you've not had to experience one. However, this is the final indication. An undude is a whiner. Beat him at a board game, he will fight. Debate on an issue and he'd either scream at you or throw a tantrum. His job sucks, his boss sucks, he needs more money, his mother doesn't call enough... Women are good at worrying about things anyway. You really don't need a guy doing it for you. Happy avoiding and happy spotting, er, eyeing... the Dude we mean.
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