In the old days moms used to have support from their community and other stay at home moms. Fast forward to 2006 and most families have two working parents. Often times stay at home moms don't have the support they need. Although most people do understand that being a stay at home mom is a job all on its own and a huge one at that, there are always time when mom may feel she's not doing enough.
The truth is that being home to raise your kids is a huge responsibility and more stay at home moms should be applauded for their choice to stay home and raise their family. But what about support?
Well if you're lucky enough to have a group of close stay at home mom friends that's great but if you aren't there are ways you can get out there and start making friends.
Join a local toddler playgroup or class. This is a great way to meet other moms with similar age kids.
Go to the park. The park is often a great meeting place for moms and it's also a good way for you and your children to get some fresh air.
Smile and say hello. Often times people seem unapproachable until someone smiles. Most of the time you will find your smile is returned. This instantly sets the ground for a conversation to start. So don't wait for people to approach you, take the initiative and say hi.
Go online. In today's technological age it's easy to make friends and find support online. There are many, many parent forums and even forums just for moms. It's great to be able to log on at any time when you're stressed or just need a quick chat and talk to other moms.
Don't forget to get out. Although online friendships and support is great do remember to get out there, even if it's just for a walk and talk to people. You'll be amazed at how easily friendships can be struck up… even when you least expect it.
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