Choosing your vows

So your tied between writing your own vows or choosing traditional vows but you do not know where to begin. Below I have compiled a list of the questions you should ask yourself before you choosing your vows. So have a pen handy.

Relationship questions

When and where did you tell your partner "I love you?"
Where and when did you meet?
Was it love at first sight?
What do you admire most about your partner?
What do you have most in common with your partner?
When and where was your first kiss?
What is your most memorable song together?
Did you meet through a mutual friend?

Ceremony

Is your ceremony cultural?
Are you having a traditional ceremony?
Who is involved in the ceremony?
How long is the ceremony?
Will you be facing each other or the clergy when saying your vows?
Will you be playing any special songs?

Choosing the right vows

Will you be saying your vows together?
Will the vows reflect any humor?
Do you have any special poems or songs?
Will you write the vows together or keep them secret?

When asking yourselves these questions remember this is your wedding and make your vows special and memorable.