Does Seeking Secret Love Affairs Outside the Current Relationship Justified?

How does it start?
It may be true that you are engaged in a relationship with somebody and it went for a while till the 'itch' strikes. You find yourself less interested in your partner and it is becoming obvious that there is no chemistry anymore. This may, very well, lead to lot of confusion if not addressed correctly.

Why that gimme more urge?
It is been proven that living beings are 'designed' to mate with new partners for the purpose of natural selection, more commonly termed as "survival of the fittest". Seeking more partners outside the current relationship is, as a matter of fact, just a biological process. But unfortunately this has been misinterpreted as a psychological matter.

How does having more affairs help?
Having love affairs with multiple people(may not be at the same time) will always have get more chances of finding better partner who eventually become the preferred partner. But some cases it may not work that way but continue to go on having more silent affairs.

Anthropologically, people traveling great distances made a way for having more love affairs or just discreet relationships. This also helps in distributing genetic features to a different society and brings out the best. Some recent studies have proven that earlier communities who had an inherent urge to travel to the deeper, undiscovered land had better features in terms of intelligence and physical appearance.

Sexually, flings adds up to one's experience and more diversified physical relationships. it may happen that one may find a better way to please their partners after a long time. It is not a joke when people say the following quote:

"In bed, experience counts".

But with the current circumstances, society is more or less inert about such flings. It is increasingly difficult to be honest with our desires. This is generally creates a difficult situation for those who want a free-as-you-go attitude. But with the advent of internet and other mediums where you can securely and anonymously find like-minded people, this problem is partially solved. Discreet relationship websites which respects the silent nature of such affairs came in handy at all times. People there mostly understand that having the-other-partner is acceptable if an acceptable level of secrecy is maintained.