12th November 2009
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Getting your ex back may seem like the thing to do. There are many articles on the net telling you how to do it, so there must be something to it. Maybe, but before you put your time and energy into an old relat...
12th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Lucille Uttermohlen
Families tend to take each other for granted. In too many situations, parents, children and siblings say things to each other that might earn them a punch in the nose from a stranger. In most families, rude or i...
09th November 2009
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"The kids are afraid of him / her."
"The kids don't want to visit with their father / mother."
Judges hear this all the time, but they aren't likely to believe it. It doesn't matter if the kids say that Dad...
06th November 2009
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I can almost feel my ears blister. Tomorrow, I have a case in Judgipoo's court, and it is just the kind of thing that makes the wild life in the garden I imagine in his courtroom come alive. There will be plenty ...
22nd October 2009
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One of my recent cases involved a couple who had been married for fifty years. It was another situation where the husband thought the children and his wife were against him. The difference between this case, and...
21st October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Lucille Uttermohlen
Can your marriage recover from an affair?
The damage caused by an affair is obvious. How can a person who has proven him / herself capable of sneaking around and being intimate with a third party ever be trust...
20th October 2009
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Communication is more than talking to each other. It is more about getting your feelings across effectively, and encouraging your partner to do the same. These tips should help you keep your relationship air cle...
14th October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Lucille Uttermohlen
If you read my blog yesterday, you would have seen my rant about the guardian ad litem who was appointed in one of my guardianship cases. I am reminded of one of those incidents that should be embarrasssing, but ...
13th October 2009
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So, what has your spouse been up to? Can you trust him / her to be where he / she said he / she would be? These signs will help you decide if the devil is loose in your blue heaven.
1. Going to the gym are we...
08th October 2009
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And, so it was that I found myself in Judgipoo's court earlier this week. The tropical vines and flowers were looking wilted, so my client's daughter contrived to get Judgipoo to give them a steam bath. Judgipoo...
29th September 2009
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Whether or not you feel your marriage can recover from infidelity, you need to concentrate on your own health. It is far too easy to lose yourself in the grief and sadness being cheated on can cause. It is easy ...
22nd September 2009
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So, it has finally happened. You have asked the man / woman of your dreams for a date. He / she said "sure why not?" and you're sitting across from him / her, positive you are answering that question. You can't th...
17th September 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Lucille Uttermohlen
One of my favorite cases was one where the wedding took place 2 months before I was born. We won't dwell on when that happened to be. It might make me blush, and at least one of us would rather I didn't. Howeve...
17th September 2009
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Marriage counseling can be a wonderful way to help couples work on their lives together. However, it's purposes are specific, and will not be achieved if either member of the couple has unrealistic expectations.
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12th September 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Lucille Uttermohlen
Establishing paternity is one of those things that has definitely improved with technology. It used to be that everyone had to have a blood draw to determine who the daddy was. I never felt too sorry for the ad...
