30th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
How do you feel when you walk past a homeless person?
If you said that you want to laugh, you're a jerk.
The interesting thing is, most of us don't feel sorry for the bum, we just get depressed.
I know that for m...
25th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
I never stop learning in this game.
One thing I've realized in the past couple years is how true the following statement is:
A woman can be attracted to you, but still decide not to sleep with you.
Makes no sense...
25th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
I talk a lot about the turning point in my pickup ability where I dropped all pre-scripted material.
I was going out, night after night, saying prescripted stories and routines. I even had jokes prepared.
And I'd ju...
12th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
The other day I was having lunch with a woman I had recently met. She was asking me all about my business.
When she first asked me what I do for a living, I told her straight up. She seemed mildly impressed, but didn't...
09th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
Of all the best pickups that I have, there was one common denominator.
Well, two. The first led to the second.
The first thing in the interaction, there was the sense that the woman was trying to impress me.
Now ...
05th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
I've tried a method that gives me a complete strategy for "flipping the script" with women I date.
This is what I mean by "flipping the script": in most relationships, hell in damn near every interaction between men a...
05th November 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
When I was in college, there was this girl...we'll call her Julie.
I met her in one of my classes, and we'd always sit together and joke about the professor and write doodles on each other's notes.
As I got to know ...
22nd October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
I've never been one to sit on my laurels. Even though I have amazing women in my life, who live to serve and please me, I never stop learning.
Over the years, I've tried and failed at a lot of different techniques with...
15th October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
Let's face it. You and I are weird guys.
Well maybe weird isn't the right term...
Sure, other people might call us weird, but I'd say we are EXCEPTIONAL.
First of all, it takes a certain kind of man to admit that...
15th October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
When I first discovered the pickup community, there was this crazy obsession for conversational "routines."
At the time it SEEMED like a novel idea.
Except it wasn't.
If you're life is not in order, you will have...
05th October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
There's nothing more frustrating than spending an hour spitting game to a girl at the bar, only to call her the next day and not get an answer.
In the era of cell-phones, it's understandable if you don't get an answer ...
05th October 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
The problem with a woman flaking out on you is that you seldom get an explanation.
You could FIX IT, If only you knew what you did WRONG. But women aren't very helpful in this arena, as I've learned the hard way.
Th...
23rd September 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
There are really two ways to amplify any potential flake outs.
(Flake-outs, or "flaking," if you're new to my stuff, means that you got a woman's phone number, but she's either not calling you back, or being difficult ...
23rd September 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
I love music most of the times, I'll need to listen to music just to get motivated to do things like work, or go for a run, or even before I go out with friends.
Music is an important part of my life, as I'm sure it's ...
22nd September 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
The question seems laughable at this point.
"What do I say to girls?"
As if there was a magical set of words, or a pattern of speech, that could make a woman like you.
And yet, that's the underlying belief isn't ...
