19th October 2009
If only all in life was plain sailing how simple it would be. Unfortunately, hardship, trials and tribulations are part and parcel of it. Encountering difficulty is not a bad thing –what matters is the way we deal with it. A positive frame of mind is...
19th October 2009
Whether you like the company of others or not it is impossible to deny the importance that other people will have in your success. So much of our thinking is conditioned by how we want to be perceived by others. It follows then that much of our behaviour...
19th October 2009
Who hasn't heard of the phrase ‘to stand out from the crowd’. If you are looking to land that job you have been after or impress someone on a date then it is quite useful to be able to ‘stand out from the crowd’. If you have ever found yourself o...
19th October 2009
There are of course many ways of measuring how successful people ,or indeed entities are. This can be viewed in monetary terms, how much is deposited in the bank. This of course is a very small part of the overall picture and we all know that wealth just...
19th October 2009
With the world now hurtling along at such a stupendous pace it's no wonder our brains seem to be no different. We mull over things again and again and you are not alone in this, dwelling on the past seems to be effecting virtually every one. This becomes ...
15th October 2009
The consequence of change and its effects on mankind is not to be underestimated. It has been our skill to change and adapt that has made us the most thriving animals on the planet. If we were not able to change there would be no houses, cars, aeroplanes ...
02nd August 2009
The feeling that you don’t measure up is a general misconception. The negative nagging monster of low self esteem can persuade us we live in a nightmare world where our every word or action serves as additional proof to us of our total lack of value. ...
23rd July 2009
The good thing about workplace blushing is that the triggers are predictable, albeit stressful, situations. Speaking up at a meeting, or feeling singled out to answer on the spot questions from the front line can raise your skin tone along with your st...
23rd July 2009
Well, adrenalin actually. It’s a natural hormone that stimulates and regulates a number of life preserving functions in our bodies, most of which we never even think about. Blushing is a result of this reaction built into the Body Human, designed to s...
23rd July 2009
The truth is a funny thing. You can bend it, twist it wrong side out, or even deny it, but it always comes out in the end. What are the truths behind your blushing triggers? Fear of looking stupid or weak will often keep us from asking for help or admit...
23rd July 2009
Parents are not always to blame. Sometimes people are just born with a sensitive personality and even the hint of disapproval can trigger an avoidance response. Either way, you can create a new parent to help condition you to react more constructively, ...
23rd July 2009
Blushing brides. Hot flashing women. What guy wants to blush in company like that? Seriously, it’s the thin skinned, literally, who suffer chronic blushing most often, regardless of gender.
Facial blushing is caused by over activity in the sympat...
23rd July 2009
Understanding non-verbal cues can help us diffuse potentially embarrassing situations before we blush. The bonus is building self-confidence, which also prevents that shame induced blush. Try this exercise. Recall a past event that left you feeling robb...
23rd July 2009
A friend of mine confided the other day that it’s a shame guys still measure their worth by the size of their bank account, house, lover, and, well... You get the picture. Mark, who used to blush at the drop of a hat, has learned that the secret to cu...
23rd July 2009
Kara has just managed to make one of her more spectacular entrances. She tripped into the girl in front of her, and sent her nearly sprawling. Already embarrassed, Kara recognizes the girl as she turns in anger. Of course it had to be one of the most pop...
