26th June 2008
Another interesting observation that I’ve made is that women only understand CODE, not direct language.
Little boys tease little girls when they’re 8, and women still love it when they’re 28 and 48. I like to find something about them that they...
26th June 2008
Many people agree that women are far more sensitive to body language than men are.
I have to say that in my experience, women can detect all kinds of things from body language. Ask a female friend to describe what’s going on with a person by looking...
26th June 2008
Another one that I use often is ‘Don’t say caring and affectionate things directly – but say them indirectly’. Women have a love for metaphors, demonstrations, stories, gifts, etc.
For instance, saying, “You’re beautiful” 12 times a day ...
26th June 2008
When they arrive at your place, say ‘hi’ and invite them in for a minute while you get your coat or shoes. Then walk out and seem like YOU’RE IN A HURRY TO LEAVE. Most guys would try to get them to stay and get cozy with them. You want them to think...
26th June 2008
I’ll tell them that I was about to go do something (to remind myself and let them know that I have a life) and then say, “Well, let’s see… what’s your schedule for the next few days? (I choose a time based on her reply…) Why don’t we get tog...
26th June 2008
I believe that women see men with whom they get involved as either ‘long-term relationship’ material or ‘sex’ material. You have to make the choice about which category you’d like to be in. By the way, if you get involved sexually, you can usual...
25th June 2008
Here’s how I mentally approach meeting a new woman: I’m cocky and funny, I steal their lines, I tease them, and I don’t ever give them a break.
In my opinion, your most valuable asset, no matter your looks, height, age, or income – is humor.
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25th June 2008
Here’s a little mini-course on how to be funny:
First, go read Comedy Writing Secrets by Melvin Helitzer. And while you’re at it, watch some good stand up comedy routines like Chris Rock, Eddie Murphy, and Robin Williams. Listen to how they use wo...
25th June 2008
When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds... then took it away saying, “No hand holding this early”, as if it were her idea... then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it and ...
25th June 2008
In my opinion, most women, especially the ‘hotties’, have gone through a learning curve here in our western culture that has on average given them a sort of ‘predictable psychological makeup’. Now, there are differences between these women… some...
24th June 2008
Most of the time, I’m enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person.
But, like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless… so they must be used with pre...
24th June 2008
I treat women very well… they always tell me that they’ve never met a man who treats them so well, etc.
How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster?
Well, it’s simple really… I do nice things for them ON MY OWN TERMS. I will surpri...
24th June 2008
I don’t ask women for permission to do things, and I don’t look to them to lead what’s going to happen next. I used to kind of watch what they were doing and take cues on how to act. Now I do and say what I want and look for cues from her so I know ...
24th June 2008
I’m going to remind you of something that I talked about earlier in this book: Most attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time by men.
I was watching one of Chris Rock’s stand up routines recently; Chris was telling the wom...
23rd June 2008
Here are additional personality traits that women find most attractive:
• Expertise. If you’re an expert in an area that is interesting to your kind of woman, this can be attractive. It needs to be presented from a “I know a lot about this, let m...
