23rd June 2008
In the next chapter, I’m going to describe my particular unique personality and the ‘character’ that I become when I’m meeting women.
But before I do that, I’d like to talk about some of the different personality traits that women find most ...
20th June 2008
Here’s a common problem: A man tries to impress a woman by doing things that show that he’s a good LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP kind of guy, but the woman responds by being stand-offish. I have read some interesting research that shows that women have a fe...
20th June 2008
Here’s a common problem: A man tries to impress a woman by doing things that show that he’s a good LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP kind of guy, but the woman responds by being stand-offish. I have read some interesting research that shows that women have a fe...
20th June 2008
I’ve read several books on mating and courtship behavior among different species of animals (including humans!). The funny thing is that humans do just about the same things as most other animals with slight variations.
Here are the main ways male a...
19th June 2008
Finally, I’m going to address the idea of your ‘states’. By ‘state’ I mean the feeling that you have in your body.
Can you remember a time when you felt happy and excited?
Can you remember a time when you felt powerful and energetic?
...
19th June 2008
One area that I’ve studied extensively is what’s commonly called ‘internal dialogue’ or ‘self-talk’. This is simply the way that you talk to yourself inside your head. Most people are talking to themselves all day long. But most people are tal...
19th June 2008
Insecurity and neediness are two of the biggest obstacles to success with women. Insecurity and neediness are like hemlock and arsenic – either will kill your attractiveness when dealing with women.
A man is needy when he craves attention or recogni...
13th June 2008
After many years of studying, researching, and trying many different things, I’ve now realized that there is a conspiracy against men being successful with women.
It’s very real, and it’s very pervasive in our culture.
Let me explain.
Most m...
12th June 2008
If you look at it from an ‘economic’ standpoint, it doesn’t benefit women at all to have their man running around having sex with other women. She can only be pregnant with one child at a time, and she can only raise a limited number at a time. So h...
12th June 2008
When I first started out learning how to meet women, I remember that I had a feeling inside like, “I’m afraid to just walk up to a strange woman and start talking.”
I thought of all kinds of things that could go wrong.
“What if she has a boy...
12th June 2008
Having a problem? You need a new skill.
If you have some area of your life that isn’t working for you, you probably need a new SKILL.
I realized a few years ago that most people look at themselves and say things like, “There must be something ...
11th June 2008
After many years of studying, researching, and trying many different things, I’ve now realized that there is a conspiracy against men being successful with women.
It’s very real, and it’s very pervasive in our culture.
Let me explain.
Most m...
11th June 2008
First, I looked at myself. I asked, “If I were the type of woman who I would like to attract (I like super hot, very intelligent women), what would make me want to be with a man?”
So I started reading, listening to tapes, going to seminars… yo...
11th June 2008
I made the decision a few years ago that I needed to get the area of my life ‘handled’ called ‘dealing with women’. So I made a decision and a commitment to myself and my best friend that I would do whatever it took to learn and ‘figure this out...
29th May 2008
I’m going to start off this whole shebang by giving you my take on women in general.
I know, I know. Every woman is a unique creature. But women have more commonalties than they have differences. So let’s start with what I think they have in commo...
