30th July 2007
After marriage, as much as we want to spend time with each other, the other agreement that we have is to respect each other’s personal space.
What do I mean by that?
Irregardless of during the period of courtship or being married, every one of us ...
30th July 2007
During courtship, money is never a problem among dating couples.
One of my friends (in her teens) is dating too and her boy-friend splurged on her (just as if there is no tomorrow), satisfying every bit of her material needs’ desire and buying her th...
30th July 2007
There is a wise saying “If you want to draw a bird, you must become the bird.” It meant to really understand one thing fully, we must be that thing.
Everyday, we have hurdles. We find ourselves panting jumping over obstacles, only to realize there ...
30th July 2007
It is not easy to really listen to someone grumble of what happened to him or her in day and stay objective-minded and be sane enough not to give solutions.
Just constant nodding will be helpful enough unless the speaker asks for some suggestions or ad...
30th July 2007
I have just came back from a seminar.
The trainer shared about a research done in 1994 by a group of psychologists on 100 pairs of newly wed couples.
Each pair had a private room each and they were told to behave normally. They were each observed fo...
30th July 2007
“Can you stop behaving like a child?”
“Can you stop being so childish?”
Are these remarks familiar to you?
Couples, be it still in courtship or marriage, exchange such hurting remarks, in an attempt to stop certain behaviours which are de...
30th July 2007
Wedding ceremony and celebration is just a moment of happiness.
Marriage is for eternality.
During courtship, when the couple is staying in different homes, there is no overlapping of personal space and privacy.
Couples, at this point in time, ma...
30th July 2007
Some people do ask me if growing up in a single-parent family has any impact on me. The answer is a definite "Yes". We are after all human being with feelings and whatever loss we experience since young will have impact on us.
To me, marriage is for an...
30th July 2007
Wedding planning is a big project. It could be seen as a mega project, many times bigger than the multi-million project you have ever handled in your career.
Wedding planning can be such a large scale event that it may have suffocated many brides and g...
26th July 2007
Many times I have heard that the men just popped the questio, ”Why not we get a house soon?”.
To these guys, they are equivalent to “Will you marry me?”
And many times, the ladies out there let them get away with it.
I’m talking about p...
26th July 2007
I am always very amazed by how a package that is worth S$3,300 can shoot up to S$8,000 or even more!!!
This is when there is no communication and common understanding between the bride and groom.
It all started when my friend stepped into the bridal...
26th July 2007
When I come to think about it, I have not really blogged a proper post on the feedback on the hotel.
My first contact with HIPV was Pauline. She was quite friendly to me. However, my cousin who accompanied me when we were going to sign the contract fou...
26th July 2007
Just received a news that the doctor says “got to be prepared for the worst”. A lot of thoughts and feelings rush through me now. Know these few days, the topics had been quite heavy for some of you.
I apologise for that. A wedding blog is supposed...
26th July 2007
Lately, I realise from other foreign wedding blogs that it is a worldwide trend that the wedding couple is stressful during the planning period…
According to my opinion and my experience, these are the 2 categories that I have found out.
Common co...
26th July 2007
My friend’s mother had passed away…
Another human had left this world and moved on the next…
From religion’s point of view, God had taken her…
At the moment, I had no idea what to blog about.
The news came this morning and I could st...
