http://www.articlealley.com en-us editorial@articlealley.com Almost daily I encounter those entangled in a kind of extramarital affair I describe as "I Fell Out of Love...and just love being in love." The cheating or "offending" spouse has encountered someone where there are "sparks!" Here are common phrases:... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/romance-is-overrated--get-over-it-and-move-beyond-it-125017.html 31st January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-8-cheated-three-times--whos-in-control-125016.html 31st January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-7-three-years-and-counting-125015.html 31st January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-6-affair-aftermath--scrambled-puzzle-125013.html 31st January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-5-how-could-she-do-this-116625.html 05th January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-4-from-depression-to-a-future-tinged-with-hope-116624.html 05th January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-3-the-116622.html 05th January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-2-hanging-on-to-the-silver-lining-in-infidelity-116621.html 05th January 2007 Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios. In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse. I then outli... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-quickie-1-feels-like-the-agony-of-the-affair-will-never-end-116620.html 05th January 2007 Upon discovery of infidelity there is often a strong need to know the details. What happened? When? Where? Why? etc. The reasons for these questions are examined in my first article on this subject: "Infidelity: Why the Need to Know is so Strong." You ... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-discovered-why-heshe-wont-tell-me-the-truth-104808.html 17th November 2006 When you discover that your partner is immersed in infidelity, you may have a powerful need to know. You want to know the details. Maybe ALL the details. When? Where? How? How Often? What was it like? etc. No. there is nothing wrong with you. In worki... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-why-the-need-to-know-is-so-strong-104807.html 17th November 2006 A common plea: But, we're "just friends." However the "emotional connection" is quite obvious by the amount of time spent in communication and the "vibes" that are set off. These emotional connections often arise at work or in a social context in which... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/emotional-infidelity-a-love-affair-or-just-friends-104804.html 17th November 2006 If there is one front-and-forward excuse for infidelity it is: " I fell out of love." This usually means: I no longer feel sexually attracted to you (I'm sexually attracted to someone else, for now, at least.) Or, I need to spice my life with giddy emo... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/sign-of-affair-i-fell-out-of-loveand-just-love-being-in-love-10999.html 04th October 2005 Cheating is different from infidelity? Yes, I believe so. Signs of a cheating spouse will be different from signs of infidelity. In talking to thousands of people embroiled with a cheating spouse or infidelity over the past two plus decades, I've n... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/signs-of-a-cheating-spouseand-how-they-differ-from-signs-of-infidelity-10998.html 04th October 2005 Infidelity has different faces...and different signs and patterns.Yes, infidelity is complex. You probably know that or perhaps feel the overwhelm and confusion. Most I work with find tremendous relief, a sense of control, confidence and power once they p... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/signs-of-infidelity-my-marriage-made-me-do-it-10994.html 04th October 2005 Relationship crises (break-up, affair, huge conflict, children problems) demand tremendous energy and often throw our lives off a healthy track - which further perpetuates our inability to respond in a healthy way to the crisis. Don't forget your body... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/relationship-crisis-6-reasons-to-get-physically-fit-8625.html 12th September 2005 Recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another ... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/extramarital-affairs-what-everyone-needs-to-know-and-what-you-can-do-to-help-4615.html 11th August 2005 1. Be predictable. When do seeds of suspicion emerge? When one begins to think, What's up? Why is he doing that? He's never done that before. That is so unlike him. He loses 30 pounds, buys a new wardrobe and comes home late from work. He changes ... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/10-crucial-and-surprising-steps-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship-4614.html 11th August 2005 Hearing that your cheating spouse is "in love" with someone else is devastating. I hear often, "I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and "love" someone else…man, that is hard... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/emotional-infidelity-a-key-tactic-to-save-the-marriage-4612.html 11th August 2005 Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don't c... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/46-clues-your-partner-is-having-an-affair-4610.html 11th August 2005 Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong. There are a number of reasons why the driv... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/cheating-spouse-7-legitimate-motives-for-spying-4609.html 11th August 2005 When you find out about the affair, the first few hours, days and weeks can be emotionally wrenching to say the least. Or, if someone you deeply care about begins "pulling away" you may also experience intense feelings. Read through this list and pick... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-discovered-10-ways-to-calm-your-powerful-feelings-4608.html 11th August 2005 When you spy on your suspected cheating spouse, please make sure you consider all the possibilities you might encounter and whether you can handle them. Have you considered the many situations that spying might uncover? Can you imagine the wor... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/cheating-husband-or-wife-6-keys-to-know-if-you-are-ready-to-handle-what-you-might-find-when-you-spy-4606.html 11th August 2005 My, how the cheating spouse cries foul when he/she discovers you are spying. Outrage can be intense: "How dare you!! I never thought you would stoop to that! How could you!? How can there be trust in this relationship if you do that? This is non... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/cheating-spouse-is-spying-an-invasion-of-privacy-4605.html 11th August 2005 Do not use what you find on your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But, don't act them out. Us... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-spying-is-not-revenge-4604.html 11th August 2005 I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger. Usually one reports, "falling out of love" and is truly disturbed by this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to "recapture" those fee... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-excuse-i-fell-out-of-loveand-just-love-being-in-love-4603.html 11th August 2005 "I Want to Get Back at Him/Her" is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book. This is the "revenge affair." It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair. It is less a movement tow... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/the-revenge-affair-characteristics-of-the-adulterer-4601.html 11th August 2005 Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: "I have a lousy marriage. My marriage is dead. There is no intimacy, no sex, and no excitement. The love is gone. We've grown apart. I can't stand th... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/infidelity-how-my-marriage-made-me-do-it-is-a-copout-4600.html 11th August 2005 Every relationship hits a snag, or worse, a major crisis (such as infidelity), that demands significant change if the relationship is to survive. So...there are promises to change and the two of you embark upon a new path. You watch carefully. "Can... http://drroberthuizenga.articlealley.com/relationship-tips-16-practical-dramatic-ways-to-know-if-heshe-is-really-changing-4599.html 11th August 2005