http://www.articlealley.com en-us editorial@articlealley.com Doc: I have been dating my girlfriend for the past 14 months, and we have endured many situations. The one I need help with is her past. She has told me she has been with 7 guys prior to me. She originally told me 6, but I found out and not from her it... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/a-plethora-of-problems-1764350.html 27th September 2010 Doc: I met this girl about 2 months ago in a college class. She actually seemed to show interest in me. I don’t know what her intentions were. She began by smiling at me in the library one day. Then she started to sit next to me sometimes and would mak... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/am-i-in-the-friend-zone-1730056.html 03rd September 2010 Dear Dr. Neder, I have a social issue. Ever since I was a kid, I wasalways very friendly, outgoing, sociable, charming, positive, and likable. Inaddition, I was never shy, but as I approached my teens, I became reclusive andreserved. It was also at that ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/overcoming-selfconsciousness-1690042.html 10th August 2010 Doc: I have a question about girls that play "hard to get". I know you tell guys (and girls) not to play this game, but I've read other articles that say that girls should do this. What's your take on that? Thanks! ======================== Hello... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/dumb-games--and-the-girls-that-play-them-1601381.html 15th June 2010 Doc, you gotta help me! I'm a 19 year old male, single and I haven't dated much. I've only been in one relationship and am now looking for a woman to be with and I just don't know where to look or even how to approach someone. My female cousins say to ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/how-do-i-start-dating-1528675.html 30th April 2010 Dr. Neder: A girl in my class recently asked me out via text message. I responded back that doing that was kind of disrespectful. She responded "whatever." That is as far as it went. I'm on break now for a few weeks. Did I handle that correctly? ===... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/she-texted-me-1506621.html 16th April 2010 Hey Doc, With Valentine's Day coming up lately I have been noticing like most single guys how much this day sucks when you are well single. However due to a severe lack of self-confidence and a habit of picking the wrong type of girl I was thinking th... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/get-going-get-confident-1394961.html 12th February 2010 Hello Dr. Dennis: I AM CONFUSED! I have been trying to figure this out myself but I could not. The issue is: I have a girlfriend who claimed that she loved me. She has another guy that she says is just a friend. Recently, she mistakenly told m... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/playing-him-like-a-guitar-1335225.html 08th January 2010 Doc: I was with my girlfriend for 9 weeks before we split on Christmas day! Everything was perfect we loved each other had talked about holiday and kids and even where we were going to get married and moving in together but the problem I had was I neve... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/christmas-day-dump-1324579.html 05th January 2010 Hey Doc: I've read your books and read your column every week. I can't tell you how you've change my life! But, I had a question for you that I haven't seen you write about before: what do you do when your girl gives too much? She cooks for me every... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/when-she-gives-too-much-1314168.html 24th December 2009 Hi there, OK I need your opinion but in order to get that I'll tell you my story. In December of 2007 I met a girl at a cafe, asked her out and we began dating. At that time I was not aware that she was here on a holiday visa. She spoke little Engli... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/longdistance-bad-news-1301036.html 17th December 2009 Doc: I'm dating this wonderful girl, but we've been going through issues in regards to the "chase" factor. We've already professed love for each other, so it's in a deeper stage than just the chasing phase, but she says of course that she wants to feel... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/the-chase-is-the-game-1262726.html 27th November 2009 Hello Dr. Dennis: I know there are lots of books out on the ‘net claiming that you can get your ex back. Do any of these books really work? What if your ex has moved on and is dating someone else? I was dumped out of the blue. I knew in my heart t... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/the-six-rs-to-getting-your-ex-back-1239649.html 19th November 2009 Dear Dennis: There's this girl that I've liked since for 2 years. I've always made small talk with her but I've been too afraid to have a serious conversation with her. We recently did a group project together with me, her, and two other guys and sh... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/waiting-in-line-to-be-100-sure-1182006.html 16th October 2009 Doc: I have dated girls anywhere from 5'1 to 5'5 inches tall and even had girls 5'6 or 5'8 be attracted to me. The thing is though, I am 5'8 1/2, which isn't really considered short, but is certainly not tall either. I have a solid, muscular build, ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/a-matter-of-height-1144232.html 02nd October 2009 Ok Dr., here is the background for this question: -She and I are both in our early 20s. -We went to high school together. -We didn't know each other well in high school, but were acquaintances with mutual friends. -I started talking to her about two... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/her-gay-friend-1116917.html 24th September 2009 Dear Dr. Neder: I'm a senior in high school and there's this really cute girl in my psych class. I want to find a way to talk to her or get her to notice me or something but I don't know how. Most stuff online would say to see her outside of class a... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/i-need-something-thatll-work--hurry-1057935.html 31st August 2009 In the Pittsburg, PA suburb of Bridgeville; a man, frustrated by his own lack of dating and relationship success decided to take his frustration out on an all-female dance-aerobics class. "Women just don't like me", he wrote in a chilling on-line diary... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/is-dating-culture-creating-murderers-1023532.html 08th August 2009 Hi! I was wondering if you have to have stuff in common with the person you're dating? I was told that it doesn't matter how different you are, as long as you're happy when you're with the other person. I'm 18 and I recently dated a guy who only car... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/all-or-nothing-in-common-1010689.html 01st August 2009 Hi Doc, I've liked this girl for between 3-4 months. Initially when I got to know her, she was really nice and we were really close. We used to message and talk almost every day. For example, there was once when she went overseas and I told her I would... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/me-her-and-the-ex-996252.html 23rd July 2009 Hey Doc! I just want to say thanks for helping to transform me into a better man than I was! Growing up, I had a dad that was often not available due to work. He and my mother would frequently get into fights with him screaming and yelling (he never hi... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/on-being-a-man-973133.html 09th July 2009 Hi Doc! My girlfriend and I broke up about 5 weeks ago. I'm 22 and we have been dating 3 years - on and off for 5. She broke up with me because of the way I was treating her, I was being a pretty bad boyfriend. So, after 5 weeks we had a talk and she w... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/trying-to-reconcile-953279.html 27th June 2009 Hi Dr. Neder, I met a girl (21yrs old) a little while ago, and have been going go out with her for 2 months. I now sense that she was on the rebound from another relationship; emotionally hurt and confused, but she does not make it clear to me that she... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/rebounds-and-responsibilities-942556.html 18th June 2009 I've been promoting a new concept on my show that has been very successful in explaining how attraction and love work. I call these them (collectively) "The Formula". Is there really a "formula" for attraction and love? Yes, there is. I discovered them... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/attraction-and-love-formulas-932500.html 12th June 2009 Hey Dr. Neder! I've gone through reading both BAM I and II - great books by the way! I've made my plans and have began practicing the steps outlined in the books, but here's the problem: when I'm around women that I have no interest in whatsoever, I... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/approach-anxiety-922868.html 08th June 2009 It started as white lies at first about small things then on to more serious things. She is not a very good liar and exposes herself with inconsistent stories and I'm just about fed up. For instance, she was talking to a few guys before me, and lies ab... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/my-girlfriend-is-a-liar-914116.html 04th June 2009 Dear Doc: I am 20 and the longest I have been in a relationship is 10 months, but I have noticed a pattern in all of the girls I have dated. When I first meet them, they seem to be head over heels for me, they seem to love my charm, since of humor and ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/is-it-just-clingy-or-something-else-887823.html 12th May 2009 Hey Dr. Neder! I've been reading through some of your answers and one common piece of advice you give women is to not play stupid games. Girls do it all the time and 9 times out of 10, it completely screws everything up for them and she ends up not get... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/being-too-smart-for-girl-games-880196.html 06th May 2009 Dr. Dennis: What are some signs that a man is "marriage material" and that a woman should definitely consider pursuing him seriously? ===================== Hello! One of the best signs is to check the ring finger of his left hand (at least her... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/which-guys-are-marriage-material-871753.html 28th April 2009 Hi Doc! Here is my situation: I am dating a guy who I am in love with. We started seeing each other in November 2008 but in February he told me we should break it off because he's not ready for anything serious as he is going through a divorce. He said... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/maybe-hell-be-mine-if-i-get-pregnant-863554.html 17th April 2009 Hey Doc, I have a question: why are women attracted to men (and not to each other)? I know what attracts me to women, women are beautiful and soft but I wonder what's in women's brains that make them see men as more attractive than women? I can't im... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/why-do-women-love-men-856473.html 15th April 2009 Doc: I met a girl that has been hurt by a lot of guys in her past and I asked her out but I got turned down because she said she wanted to face her studies squarely. She came back home on Christmas break and I asked her again and we were so close to... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/help-my-world-is-crumbling-848532.html 07th April 2009 Hi Dr. Dennis, I recently started dating a guy. I am 21 and he's 22. We've been together for about 2 months now and it's going really well, but a lot of the time I feel like he is contributing to the relationship a lot more than I am and I don't really... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/even-steven-831928.html 23rd March 2009 Hello Dr. Neder: This last weekend, I bumped into an old friend that happens to be friends with my ex. She was with another friend with whom I hit it off really well. We all decided to go hang out for a while. She and I flirted quite a bit and we sp... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/dating-on-facebook-823909.html 13th March 2009 Dear Dr. Neder, What's a good way to enter into a sexual relationship so that you don't go too fast or too slow? Sometimes if the guy goes too fast it can be really threatening to the woman (unless she likes it of course.) ======================== ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/going-too-fast-going-too-slow-808009.html 04th March 2009 Dr. Neder, I have been dating my girlfriend for over 5 years- since my senior year of high school and her junior year. I've graduated from college and she is about to. She is the only girl that I have dated. I've always had girls as friends but neve... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/getting-experience-798874.html 25th February 2009 Have you been having trouble moving on after breaking up with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? This can be very difficult to do! I'm going to show you an incredibly powerful technique to help you get healed quickly and permanently and to move on so that you... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/how-to-move-on-789269.html 18th February 2009 Hi Dr. Neder: My problem is that I don't want to play the dating game and I don't know how to avoid it. I'm not interested in the type of relationship that's a sort of fragile peace treaty after a war of conquest. When I consider what's involved in ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/avoiding-the-dating-games-780458.html 09th February 2009 Hi, I'm a 33-year-old, separated woman and haven't dated anyone in over 5 years. I'm unsure, nervous and scared of the future but want to get on with life. I have had nasty experiences before in regards to men n relationships and I don't know how to... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/i-just-dont-know-how-to-start-773104.html 31st January 2009 Dear Dr. Neder: My boyfriend and I have only been dating a year and 2 months. I do really care for him and I pray he cares for me as well. Here is my concern, he has hidden things from me before, and I have found out and now I'm getting afraid he is... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-764748.html 21st January 2009 Dr. Neder: I've been dating a guy for 6 months. We were inseparable we spend loads of time together. We get along fantastic our families love each other. There is one big problem. I had to move back to the town I'm from which is where he lives. I notic... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/compromise-to-get-him-back-or-bolt-757166.html 16th January 2009 Hi Dr. Neder, I am a 24 year-old med student and cannot find the right woman. I have been told I'm a handsome and outgoing, and my women friends always tell me I'm a catch. I've been involved with a couple women that logically seem like the type I'd li... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/just-never-satisfied-727567.html 19th December 2008 Hi Doc: I guess my situation is common but let me ask what you think any way. I am a 42 year old woman that has been dating a 50 year old man for 4 years now, we have been living together for 2 years now and we're both divorced. When we met I was... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/will-he-marry-me-719268.html 14th December 2008 Dear Doc: I'm 33 years old and only had a few relationships in my life. Any women I did date felt like I was settling since I didn't have the self esteem to get the women I really wanted. I believed very attractive women were too good for me or always ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/im-tired-of-being-too-shy-712141.html 04th December 2008 Hi I don't know if you or anyone knows how to answer this question. But I was wondering how does someone really know if they are in love or deeply attracted to another person? I've read that you would know if you fell in love with someone, and that ... http://dennisneder.articlealley.com/what-is-love-705733.html 02nd December 2008