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<html> <head> <title>How to Meet the Partner of Your Dreams</title> </head> <body> <h1>How to Meet the Partner of Your Dreams</h1> <div class="info">Author: <a href="author_1_77652.html">Donald Pittwood</a></div><div class="body">Would you like to find out what those-in-the-know have to say about Dating? The information in the article below comes straight from well-informed experts with special knowledge about Dating. 1. Online Dating Safety We have all heard the story on the news about a person who decided to meet up with another individual they had chatted with online, and never returned home. These occurrences are abnormal when it comes to online dating, but here are a few tips to make sure that your online dating experience is fun and safe. Make sure to trust your instinct. If you have a gut feeling that something may not be right about the other person, stick with your instinct. You should always feel comfortable with whoever you are chatting. If someone is abusive, block them immediately. There are plenty of other personal ads to look through, so take your time and view a good number of them. Before agreeing to a date, make sure you know as much as possible. Never publish your phone number or email address in personal ads. Additionally, don't provide your home or work address to anyone you have not met. Don't allow yourself to be talked into anything…you are the one in charge! Take your time to get to know someone…don't feel rushed. A patient person will be happy to wait until you are ready to meet. Chat on the phone for a while before arranging a date to get to know each other. When it comes to the actual date, there are a few things to keep in mind. Always meet in a public place that is well known and convenient to you. You will want to tell a friend where you are going and who you are meeting. Always carry a cell phone on a date, and if possible, phone your friend during the date to confirm that everything is fine. Try to meet at lunchtime, which is convenient, and have a time limit. Make your own travel arrangements. Don't accept a ride home on the first date or reveal your address. Keep the date to a time limit so that you have an 'exit' point. This way, if you're feeling uncomfortable, you can politely leave. 2. Dating Do's and Don'ts We've all been on a date before and wondered whether or not you should or should not do or say something. As much as we would like to deny it, there are some unwritten dating 'rules' that everyone should follow…which will make everyone, male and female, much more comfortable and content with a date. First, there are some things everyone should do on dates. There is the obvious first impression. Try to look your best and be punctual. No one wants to date an irresponsible slob. To go the other way, flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to put in a lot of effort for a date, so being told that they look nice is always good to hear. Have fun when dating. Be interested and interesting. Make sure to tell someone if you are not interested in dating them again. Being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious act. If you don't want to see them again, let them know that in the nicest possible way you can. Date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Stay positive even when dates don't end well. You will meet some nice people and probably make some good contacts. Dating is a creative diversion, it requires concentration and energy so when you are dating keep some plans in the forefront of your mind and allow dating to take you to places you always wanted to visit within your own city. Make dating happen for yourself. People will not come and ring your bell from nowhere. Dating requires positive action so go out there and meet people, as many people as you can. Practice your chat and flirting on shop workers, bar attendants, anywhere and everywhere. Being nice to people is very sexy and great fun. Surround yourself with positive like minded people who are also dating. Think about the girls from Sex and the City and how they assist each other in dating and matters of romance. Negative friends who don't condone the dating scene or don't understand it will only help lower your own expectations and make you feel negative. 3. Dating Etiquette How many times have you watched one of those dating shows on TV and thought, "I can't believe he/she just did/said that?!?!" To avoid making similar mistakes on your next date, stick with some of the following ideas… Eye contact is crucial when dating, so it is good etiquette to provide as much attention as possible to your date. They should feel as if they are the only person in the room. Be a listener and do not talk your date to death, particularly if you are male. Listening shows interest and the ability to compromise. If your idea of a date is talking about yourself and your opinions all night then do your date a favor and stay at home alone. Be courteous and complimentary. Your date has made an effort for you and your personal opinions aren't quite welcome at this stage. Also to this end, always turn up for a date unless you have given plenty of time for it to be canceled. Standing someone up is rude, and not appropriate adult behavior. Try to turn up on time, and don't keep your date waiting. If your transportation is unreliable, get going in plenty of time. Being punctual shows respect for your date and shows your responsibility. Try to avoid being opinionated or arrogant on a date and try to avoid discussions about politics and religion on the first date. You will come across badly to your date if you act like this. Additionally, don't be rude to others on a date. You are trying to show your good side, so arguing about a service charge or whether the wine is chilled enough will make you look like a fool. And remember…arguing with the waiter is a big no-no. In terms of appearance, make an effort to dress well. There is no excuse to look bad. Poor dress shows laziness and will do nothing to promote you. Also, try to be fresh and smell good. You should be shaven, bathed and smell good. It will cost you nothing more than a bottle of quality cologne and some shower gel. Just make sure not to over-do it with the cologne! 4. Having Confidence No one wants a date with someone with low self esteem and a negative self image. Try to makeover your self confidence and learn how to be a desirable date with these ideas… If you base what you do on inaccurate information, you might be unpleasantly surprised by the consequences. Make sure you get the whole Dating story from informed sources. Make a list addressing all the things you are not comfortable with about yourself. Be honest. Establish which things people may not like about you and get an honest second opinion. Change the things that are easy first, and ensure you are comfortable with any alterations. Address the way you look and dress. By changing the basic aspects of your looks, lifestyle and regimen, you will instantly feel more confident. By looking and feeling good about yourself and widening your horizons your life has already changed for the better and your confidence levels are on the up. There are a few changes that can be made in your daily life. Make sure you are in shape or attempting to be. If you are dieting or exercising, remember to be patient as these changes will take a little while. Also, start doing things you wish you always had the courage to do…maybe a hobby, sport, class or society. Learn to enjoy the smaller things in life and give yourself time especially for these things. If you like to cook for friends, then start having dinner parties. Start dating…if someone has asked you out, accept. If not, be proactive and ask someone out yourself who you like. Just do it, and accept the fact that some people will say no…but many will also say yes. Begin to make conversation with the nice people you meet along the way. Become sociable and look good at every opportunity. Now start to be selective about what kind of people you really like. But by the same token, talk to everyone. The more people who are interested, the higher your confidence levels. Remember to stay away from people that bring you down or criticize you. Whether a friend or a potential date, you deserve better. Walk away from anything you don't like and instill a positive attitude in everything that you do. 5. Romance 101 What woman doesn't want to be treated to a little romance every once in a while? Many women will agree that romance is all about the details. Small gestures really do make a normal night out into something romantic. So listen up… because these tips are sure earn you some points… The key to being romantic is thoughtfulness…so start being a little less selfish. Learn that mood, location, situation and ambience can heighten romance with dramatic effect. Communicate with your partner on every level and anticipate their desires and needs. Look at your partner when they are talking and hold their gaze. Try doing little things to get right at your partner's soft spot. Phone just to say hello, I love you and give your partner a nice surprise. Send them notes and small cards telling them you are thinking of them. Be spontaneous and do little deeds that show you care. Bring home take out from their favorite restaurant or take them to their favorite ice cream shop. Flowers are always a nice touch at any time of year. Be creative and pick out their favorite colors and types for a personal touch. Remember birthdays, anniversaries and landmark days such as the day your first met or first kissed, and plan something…maybe a return to the first date location. Listen to clues that your partner might drop, such as their favorite dessert or books they like, and surprise them with little gifts. Learn how to hug, cuddle and make physical contact. Dance together when the occasion arises. Hold hands and do anything to make your partner feel close to you. Write him/her a letter and let them know that you love them and you mean it. Use nice stationary, or make your own card, which shows thought and inspiration. In terms of dates, learn how to cook your partner's favorite dish. Plan a surprise candlelit dinner followed by a romantic movie. Take your partner on a picnic to the park or beach and prepare in advance without involving them. This initiative is very romantic. Now might be a good time to write down the main points covered above. The act of putting it down on paper will help you remember what's important about Dating. Resources: For a more in depth guide to dating, you must see the CHRISTIAN DATING HANDBOOK and the bonus publication: http://tinyurl.com/adkvd </div> <div class="source">Article Source: <a href="http://www.articlealley.com/article_28661_39.html">http://www.articlealley.com/article_28661_39.html</a></div> <div class="author"> <div class="authorBio"></div> </author> </body> </html>

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How to Meet the Partner of Your Dreams Author: Donald Pittwood Would you like to find out what those-in-the-know have to say about Dating? The information in the article below comes straight from well-informed experts with special knowledge about Dating. 1. Online Dating Safety We have all heard the story on the news about a person who decided to meet up with another individual they had chatted with online, and never returned home. These occurrences are abnormal when it comes to online dating, but here are a few tips to make sure that your online dating experience is fun and safe. Make sure to trust your instinct. If you have a gut feeling that something may not be right about the other person, stick with your instinct. You should always feel comfortable with whoever you are chatting. If someone is abusive, block them immediately. There are plenty of other personal ads to look through, so take your time and view a good number of them. Before agreeing to a date, make sure you know as much as possible. Never publish your phone number or email address in personal ads. Additionally, don't provide your home or work address to anyone you have not met. Don't allow yourself to be talked into anything…you are the one in charge! Take your time to get to know someone…don't feel rushed. A patient person will be happy to wait until you are ready to meet. Chat on the phone for a while before arranging a date to get to know each other. When it comes to the actual date, there are a few things to keep in mind. Always meet in a public place that is well known and convenient to you. You will want to tell a friend where you are going and who you are meeting. Always carry a cell phone on a date, and if possible, phone your friend during the date to confirm that everything is fine. Try to meet at lunchtime, which is convenient, and have a time limit. Make your own travel arrangements. Don't accept a ride home on the first date or reveal your address. Keep the date to a time limit so that you have an 'exit' point. This way, if you're feeling uncomfortable, you can politely leave. 2. Dating Do's and Don'ts We've all been on a date before and wondered whether or not you should or should not do or say something. As much as we would like to deny it, there are some unwritten dating 'rules' that everyone should follow…which will make everyone, male and female, much more comfortable and content with a date. First, there are some things everyone should do on dates. There is the obvious first impression. Try to look your best and be punctual. No one wants to date an irresponsible slob. To go the other way, flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to put in a lot of effort for a date, so being told that they look nice is always good to hear. Have fun when dating. Be interested and interesting. Make sure to tell someone if you are not interested in dating them again. Being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious act. If you don't want to see them again, let them know that in the nicest possible way you can. Date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Stay positive even when dates don't end well. You will meet some nice people and probably make some good contacts. Dating is a creative diversion, it requires concentration and energy so when you are dating keep some plans in the forefront of your mind and allow dating to take you to places you always wanted to visit within your own city. Make dating happen for yourself. People will not come and ring your bell from nowhere. Dating requires positive action so go out there and meet people, as many people as you can. Practice your chat and flirting on shop workers, bar attendants, anywhere and everywhere. Being nice to people is very sexy and great fun. Surround yourself with positive like minded people who are also dating. Think about the girls from Sex and the City and how they assist each other in dating and matters of romance. Negative friends who don't condone the dating scene or don't understand it will only help lower your own expectations and make you feel negative. 3. Dating Etiquette How many times have you watched one of those dating shows on TV and thought, "I can't believe he/she just did/said that?!?!" To avoid making similar mistakes on your next date, stick with some of the following ideas… Eye contact is crucial when dating, so it is good etiquette to provide as much attention as possible to your date. They should feel as if they are the only person in the room. Be a listener and do not talk your date to death, particularly if you are male. Listening shows interest and the ability to compromise. If your idea of a date is talking about yourself and your opinions all night then do your date a favor and stay at home alone. Be courteous and complimentary. Your date has made an effort for you and your personal opinions aren't quite welcome at this stage. Also to this end, always turn up for a date unless you have given plenty of time for it to be canceled. Standing someone up is rude, and not appropriate adult behavior. Try to turn up on time, and don't keep your date waiting. If your transportation is unreliable, get going in plenty of time. Being punctual shows respect for your date and shows your responsibility. Try to avoid being opinionated or arrogant on a date and try to avoid discussions about politics and religion on the first date. You will come across badly to your date if you act like this. Additionally, don't be rude to others on a date. You are trying to show your good side, so arguing about a service charge or whether the wine is chilled enough will make you look like a fool. And remember…arguing with the waiter is a big no-no. In terms of appearance, make an effort to dress well. There is no excuse to look bad. Poor dress shows laziness and will do nothing to promote you. Also, try to be fresh and smell good. You should be shaven, bathed and smell good. It will cost you nothing more than a bottle of quality cologne and some shower gel. Just make sure not to over-do it with the cologne! 4. Having Confidence No one wants a date with someone with low self esteem and a negative self image. Try to makeover your self confidence and learn how to be a desirable date with these ideas… If you base what you do on inaccurate information, you might be unpleasantly surprised by the consequences. Make sure you get the whole Dating story from informed sources. Make a list addressing all the things you are not comfortable with about yourself. Be honest. Establish which things people may not like about you and get an honest second opinion. Change the things that are easy first, and ensure you are comfortable with any alterations. Address the way you look and dress. By changing the basic aspects of your looks, lifestyle and regimen, you will instantly feel more confident. By looking and feeling good about yourself and widening your horizons your life has already changed for the better and your confidence levels are on the up. There are a few changes that can be made in your daily life. Make sure you are in shape or attempting to be. If you are dieting or exercising, remember to be patient as these changes will take a little while. Also, start doing things you wish you always had the courage to do…maybe a hobby, sport, class or society. Learn to enjoy the smaller things in life and give yourself time especially for these things. If you like to cook for friends, then start having dinner parties. Start dating…if someone has asked you out, accept. If not, be proactive and ask someone out yourself who you like. Just do it, and accept the fact that some people will say no…but many will also say yes. Begin to make conversation with the nice people you meet along the way. Become sociable and look good at every opportunity. Now start to be selective about what kind of people you really like. But by the same token, talk to everyone. The more people who are interested, the higher your confidence levels. Remember to stay away from people that bring you down or criticize you. Whether a friend or a potential date, you deserve better. Walk away from anything you don't like and instill a positive attitude in everything that you do. 5. Romance 101 What woman doesn't want to be treated to a little romance every once in a while? Many women will agree that romance is all about the details. Small gestures really do make a normal night out into something romantic. So listen up… because these tips are sure earn you some points… The key to being romantic is thoughtfulness…so start being a little less selfish. Learn that mood, location, situation and ambience can heighten romance with dramatic effect. Communicate with your partner on every level and anticipate their desires and needs. Look at your partner when they are talking and hold their gaze. Try doing little things to get right at your partner's soft spot. Phone just to say hello, I love you and give your partner a nice surprise. Send them notes and small cards telling them you are thinking of them. Be spontaneous and do little deeds that show you care. Bring home take out from their favorite restaurant or take them to their favorite ice cream shop. Flowers are always a nice touch at any time of year. Be creative and pick out their favorite colors and types for a personal touch. Remember birthdays, anniversaries and landmark days such as the day your first met or first kissed, and plan something…maybe a return to the first date location. Listen to clues that your partner might drop, such as their favorite dessert or books they like, and surprise them with little gifts. Learn how to hug, cuddle and make physical contact. Dance together when the occasion arises. Hold hands and do anything to make your partner feel close to you. Write him/her a letter and let them know that you love them and you mean it. Use nice stationary, or make your own card, which shows thought and inspiration. In terms of dates, learn how to cook your partner's favorite dish. Plan a surprise candlelit dinner followed by a romantic movie. Take your partner on a picnic to the park or beach and prepare in advance without involving them. This initiative is very romantic. Now might be a good time to write down the main points covered above. The act of putting it down on paper will help you remember what's important about Dating. Resources: For a more in depth guide to dating, you must see the CHRISTIAN DATING HANDBOOK and the bonus publication: http://tinyurl.com/adkvd Article Source: http://www.articlealley.com/article_28661_39.html About the Author:

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