Articles, tagged with "defensiveness", page 2
08th February 2011
The rate of divorce today is on a dramatic increase. It would seem that couples are less prepared or less capable of working through the difficult times that come along in any marriage, which is leading to them just giving up.
The current annual rate ...
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Author:
Mark Alan
01st February 2011
As substantially as nobody likes them, disagreements are aspect of each and every relationship. Quite a few instances it truly is the unresolved disagreements in between a couple that may result in a divorce. When not everyone will agree all the time, i...
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Author:
Rainier Sunga
24th January 2011
As retailers most of our effort and expense go into creating great stores and getting customers to come to them. Whether it pays off depends on what our sales people do with them when they get there. Profitability is often the difference between good sal...
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Author:
Chip Averwater
18th January 2011
You may have heard about the Law of Attraction, also known as Karma, one of the universal laws that govern the human experience. Here’s my take on the universal laws that govern relationships.
The Master Law: Cause and Effect, or Flash Karma
This law...
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Author:
Coach Judy
12th January 2011
Four communication patterns that are most predictive of death to a relationship. "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. The four horsemen are CRITICISM, DEFENSIVENESS, CONTEMPT, and STONEWALLING.
HORSEMAN #1 - CRITICISM
CRITICISM is an over generalized...
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Author:
michtfyowo
12th January 2011
One of the most important aspects of self care is making sure our emotional needs are met. And anger is one of these emotions that we often feel shameful or guilty about feeling and expressing. But, all emotions are valid and learning how to deal with the...
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Author:
christiei
05th January 2011
1. Do not react anger to anger. Confrontation should escalate. If you find yourself suddenly getting angry next time, you are not supposed to respond with the same. You need to take a breath, and response honestly with no over defensiveness. If the other ...
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Author:
ergesg
05th January 2011
1. Do not react anger to anger. Confrontation should escalate. If you find yourself suddenly getting angry next time, you are not supposed to respond with the same. Take a deep breath, and then act calmly without any defensiveness. If others will not take...
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Author:
Mei
04th January 2011
An emotional affair is a confusing concept. It is bandied about freely and most of the time incorrectly. So let us first define the term. This is simply when a spouse has developed a relationship outside the marriage that transcends "normal" friendship or...
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Author:
MarcusAndrers
22nd December 2010
Just look around the world, almost everyday we read from the tabloids about one or the other celebrity calling it quits to her/his marriage and filing for divorce. Just a few years before, these very people were on the front pages of these very tabloids, ...
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Author:
cissyhelps
14th December 2010
Failure can be your friend and it can do wonders for your life. Of course, it won’t be the kind of friend you hang out with and have fun with. It will be the kind that dishes out loads of tough love. It may seem odd to put a positive turn on something tha...
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Author:
jonesspores
26th November 2010
Honesty has to be the first ingredient if we want to be successful with this recipe. Don't be afraid to acknowledge that an affair has occurred. Bring everything to the table with open and honest communication. Express how you feel and seek answer to all ...
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Author:
MarcusAndrers
17th November 2010
For many people, spending some time in front of the computer, playing some game, is considered an ok thing. Many people can play a game, and live their life normally, but when that game interferes in our lives then that game becomes a problem. It’s like a...
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Author:
Alexander McGee
18th October 2010
Marriage counselling is a common type of therapy sought by couples in London and throughout Central Ontario. Marriage counsellors can help you with a variety of situations, but often focus on improving communication skills. Many counsellors and mental h...
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Author:
Dr. Dan Dalton
01st October 2010
Picture this image of two boys playing in a garden, trying to catch some birds.
One of the boys rushes around frantically with a net trying to catch the birds. Every time he gets close, the birds fly away. There’s lots of squawking, and feathers flying...
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Author:
Bernadette Doyle