Articles, tagged with "defensiveness", page 5
07th April 2009
When performance time rolls around, are your employees defensive and tense? Do they view anything you say as criticism?
But, what if every evaluation or feedback you offered was received as a gift? The information in this article can help you create an...
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17th March 2009
The dysfunctional workplace is a killer. Untreated it will kill off your customer base, your profits, and your joy for living as surely as anything.
As managers, leaders and top executives within your organization you've got to kill the conflicts in y...
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Roxanne Emmerich
13th March 2009
Providing clear and direct feedback is an essential function of management. The value of feedback is that it promotes learning and maintains performance in alignment with accepted standards. Frequent feedback provides more cycles of learning and allows em...
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Author:
Maret Maxwell, PhD
20th February 2009
Copyright (c) 2009 Valery Satterwhite
I was having fun watching my two cats play one morning when I had one of those magical moments of clarity. It was an'out of the blue' moment that enlightened, empowered and inspired me. The pussycats were playing a...
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Valery Satterwhite
10th February 2009
Every now and then we all have experiences that we can't quite explain. For example: we know something is going to happen, and then it does, we have a dream, and then it comes true, or out of the blue, we go somewhere we usually wouldn't, and we meet ou...
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C. Gray Flynn
07th January 2009
The problem most women have with a cheating boyfriend is finding out far too long into the affair because they don't know the signals they should be aware of. It is also a devastating emotional experience that many women wish to avoid and to do so they hi...
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Andrew Bicknell
01st December 2008
"I know you think you understand what I said. But I don't think you understand that what I said is not what I meant."
Effective communication is key to getting our messages across to others both at work and in our personal relationships. It maximizes t...
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Author:
Barbara Small
31st October 2008
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (Crown, 1999) is a book that I often recommend for people who are wishing to improve their relationships, married or otherwise. The author, Dr. John Gottman, actually hooked couples up to electrodes and watche...
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Catherine Auman, MFT
15th October 2008
When I was 24 years old I fell madly in love. I was madly in love for three weeks, and then spent the next 30 years struggling to regain and maintain that wonderful feeling. In the course of my long marriage and in the many years I've been couns...
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Jim Lim
13th October 2008
Normally, for any couples who are involved in the relationship, they have to understand the most key essence which is communication. Communication is a term that is used in our daily lives, and it is extremely important because it allows the couples...
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Author:
Jim Lim
29th September 2008
Would you like to understand the impact arguing will have on your chances to get back your ex? It's amazing how simple this advice is and yet how absolutely difficult it is to adhere to it following a breakup. Read on for tips to help you avoid this very...
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Author:
Keith L Jones
25th September 2008
You still recall the first time you and your significant other argued. It wasn't really over anything important. You didn't think so then and you still don't. That's not how the other person took it. It wasn't that they felt they had to win the argument ...
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Author:
Daryl Campbell
11th September 2008
One of the most ordinary proposals made to original enrollees in a network marketing plan. A slightly more current variation on this is to buy a list of email leads and plug them into the pre-written auto responder series provided by the MLM Company.
Mos...
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Author:
Ranvir Singh
29th July 2008
It started with a blind date. Neither of you expected it to amount to much but lo and behold something happened that surprised the both of you. Turns out you hit it off pretty good; very good actually. This led to more dates and before either one of you k...
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Author:
Daryl Campbell
09th July 2008
Have you ever had an argument with someone - a partner, spouse, close friend, child, parent or other relative, or a business associate - that started small and spiraled into an intense conflict? Have you ever scratched your head, wondering how it got so o...
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Author:
Margaret Paul, Ph.D.